Whenever there’s public outrage over police brutality against someone Black, there’s a knee jerk reaction by the public to invalidate the claim. More than one thing can be true at once and yet, it never fails that when highlighting some of the egregious acts of those who are hired, trained …

Former First Lady Michelle Obama inspired us all when she said, “when they go low, we go high.” Well, that message must have fallen on deaf ears for Washington Redskins football team owner, Dan Snyder. I can’t say for sure that it’s a competition, but is it really a coincidence …

Being able to wear a bra is a defining moment for every young girl as an introduction to womanhood. Likewise, rushing home to throw the bra on the floor at the end of the day is a coveted moment for most women. It doesn’t matter how much lace is on …

There really isn’t anything that money can’t buy. From designer clothing and handbags to yachts and private jets. The allure of owning a high priced item or two becomes goals for hardworking people and mere trinkets for those with a secured bag. If you’re willing to pay, you can have …

It’s the dawn of a new day, a changing of times if you will. We’ve seen these scenarios replay over and over again with different players however, seemingly the same game. Something about learning that our favorite athletes, politicians, entertainers and leaders are monsters in real life versus their professional …

They say that youth is wasted on the young and now that I’ve crossed over the 30 bridge, I’m starting to understand why. Now, I’m not saying that I’m old by any means, but everything is starting to get better now that those awkward 20’s are behind me. I feel …

2018 was like a gift and a curse. While there were many vast accomplishments and memorable moments shared by our favorite celebrities, the entertainment industry also suffered some low blows and devastating losses. Too many of our shining stars unexpectedly departed from their loved ones and fans way too soon. From …

Whew chile, how do we even begin to unpack the hot mess that was Kanye West this year? Quick disclaimer: If in fact there is an issue of mental instability then that is a serious concern and shouldn’t be taken lightly, not even in a joking matter. However, if Kanye …

There have always been a ton of opinions and suggestions on what is required to have a sustainable, long-lasting relationship. Patience, forgiveness, compromise, communication, and commitment are understandably major requirements for healthy relationships. Somewhere along the way, things like tolerating disrespect, long-suffering, embarrassment, sticking it out and making it work …

I LOVE, love you hear me?  No, like for real, I absolutely believe in the concept of true love, ever after, sticking it out, love is patient, kind and true love will endure and overcome in the end. With that being said, it may be time to change the narrative …

It’s the holiday season, and nothing says “I love you” quite like an invite to meet your significant other’s family. For many, meeting the family marks a pivotal moment in the relationship where you know it’s real and that you’re more than just someone’s “little friend.”  Despite the excitement to …

Have you seen the 2011 clip from the HBO special ”Talking Funny,” of Chris Rock sitting with Jerry Seinfeld, Ricky Gervais and Louis CK discussing the infamous “N” word? It seems like every year there’s a need to address this topic and while it’s been answered numerous times already, let’s …

We are down to the last couple of shopping days before Christmas. Hopefully, you’re just about done, but if you haven’t even started yet, then you might want to have an idea of what to get before heading out into the crowds.  If shopping for small children, you can never …

Opinions are everywhere thanks to the internet. Gone are the days where you have to know someone personally to feel like you can speak to them any kind of way. The comment section on any social media, news or internet platform is arguably one of the most negative and verbally …

Secure the bag has become a popular phrase in Black culture, but aside from getting money, do you know the true value of the dollars we amass as a community? While it’s no secret that African Americans are seemingly a minority in the total US population, consumers of color spend …

I want to ask you something, on a scale of 1-10 with 10 being the highest score, how well would you rate the current level of satisfaction you feel with your life? I know it seems like a weird question, but it shouldn’t be. Have you ever even thought about …

Are you old enough to remember life before social media? The days of long telephone cords and cordless phones. When you knew everyone’s number by heart and call waiting was the best thing in the world? When you actually went outside to enjoy life versus wasting hours scrolling to see …

It’s no secret that little to no exercise combined with processed foods high in fat and sugar are detrimental to your health. Aside from resulting in obesity, heart issues, and diabetes, a poor diet is a major contributor to many types of cancers.  Over the years, we’ve seen an increase …

In this day an age, if you are lucky enough to still have your granny and/or granddaddy around consider yourself blessed. There is nothing like the love, lessons, and traditions gained from the wisdom shared by our elders. Over the years, things have changed a bit, and some grandparents are …

In the spirit of wanting to live our best lives, we have to understand that there’s power in the words we speak, think and type online. You see examples of it every day in the comments section of social media. I guess some people didn’t learn the golden rule, “if …