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Baller Mail: “I Was Abusive to the Love of My Life, But I Know I Can Change; Do Abusers Deserve Second Chances?”

If you’re going through a tough time-whether its with your relationship, your career, or just life, Baller Alert is here to give you some advice. While it can be hard to talk to family and friends out of fear of being judged, we are here to be that listening ear. If you want to remain anonymous or don’t mind putting your business on front street, our followers will always give you the real deal and tell you what you need to know. If you would like some ballerific advice from our followers, DM your questions to @peachkyss or email at Peachkyss@balleralert.com.
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“ (Lesbian relationship) I met and fell in love with a girl, deeply. Due to me moving away from my family in Africa to be with her in New York, coupled with excessive marijuana abuse, and the daily pressures of a relationship, I lost it and things turned abusive, mentally and physically, 99% inflicted by me. She broke up with me 2 years later, but the thing is, I know for a fact she’s my soulmate. I can be a better person, but do abusers deserve a second chance at love with the person they hurt, even if they have changed for the better? Or is it audacious?”
What advice would you give our reader?

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  1. Hmmm even though i called you stupid, punched you in the face, pulled your hair, dropped kicked you and stomped on your fingers…..i apologize…youre the one for me….please give me a second chance….dont blame me blame the weed 👀

    Girl just move on, see a head doctor and do better in your next relationship.

    • I believe if they both let go of the booze, marijuana, and sell counseling together at separate sessions, yes people can change. If alcohol remains in the equation, even in a weekend than No no no.

  2. Dont walk, run! Although he says he will change mentally there will always be that feeling of “what if” Everytime that man lifts his hand you flinch, If he gets upset how will he act on his agressions?! Theres a wicked thin line one in which has already been crossed and has turned into a deadly obsession. Just speaking from experience..

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