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Baller Mail: “My Boyfriend of 11 Years Left Me To Work It Out With His Baby Momma. It Didn’t Work Out, Now He Wants Me Back. Should I Take Him Back or Let Him Go?”

If you’re going through a tough time-whether its with your relationship, your career, or just life, Baller Alert is here to give you some advice. While it can be hard to talk to family and friends out of fear of being judged, we are here to be that listening ear. If you want to remain anonymous or don’t mind putting your business on front street, our followers will always give you the real deal and tell you what you need to know. If you would like some ballerific advice from our followers, DM your questions to @peachkyss or email at [email protected]
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“So my current boyfriend of 11 years been together since I was 17 got another woman pregnant….the baby is due April 1st. I have known about it since October and we are still living together and trying to work things out. He tells me he loves me and that he is sorry. He initially wanted to try and make things work with the other woman but she is 21 and he is 31 and after trying for a few months he decided he doesn’t want to be with her. Should I try and work it out with him because we have so much history? He is my best friend and I truly love him but I am so lost. How can I accept another woman’s baby?

BA Response: In relationships, mistakes do happen and I know you are feeling like this is one of them that shouldn’t have. I understand the love and history that the two of you have shared, but you need to really think about the relationship and what is now being added to the equation.

You stated that he tried to work things out with the other woman but it didn’t work out. Basically, he left you to pursue a relationship with someone else and since it didn’t work, he wants you back. Does that sound fair to you? It seems like you are a second choice to him. Only you know what you can handle or tolerate in a relationship. At this moment, the two of you only have time and history. We can tell you to leave him all day, but you are going to ultimately do what your heart wants. But if you don’t take anything from this, please remember, “Don’t make someone a priority when you are only an option to them!”

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IPeachkyss is the Fashion Writer and Content Curator for Baller Alert, who keeps reader up-to-date on the latest trends, the latest luxury brand collections, and how to "ball" on a budget.  Peachkyss has her Bachelors in Elementary Education with a concentration in Mathematics from Norfolk State University and Masters in Middle Grades Mathematics from Walden University.  Have a question about what your favorite celeb is wearing or fashion advice, email me at [email protected] "Style is a way to say who are you are without having to speak."

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