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Baller Mail: “My Boyfriend Hasn’t Told His Children That We are Expecting Because His Daughter Doesn’t Like Me or My Daughter. Should I Approach Him About This?”

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“I’m 6months pregnant and both me and my boyfriend have kids. Two from him (3) and (7) and one from me (7) . I’m half way through my pregnancy and he still hasn’t told his kids that they are expecting a sibling. I don’t put pressure on him because only he would know when it’s the right time. Buuuut.. I don’t think his daughter is really fond of me.. at first when she comes over his house she gives me and my daughter a terrible stare and a vibe that she kinda dislikes us till she gets comfortable enough to play with my daughter.. and or kinda talks to me.. my boyfriend starts acting weird and a little distant to not make his daughter feel uncomfortable…which makes me feel uncomfortable and me and my daughter just isolate by ourselves in the room all day.. my boyfriend and I can’t even have a straight decent conversation or be seen hugging around her.. i completely understand her because I was Jealous with my dad’s girlfriends but I’m due in a matter of months with another baby girl and I want my baby’s siblings to love her as their own.. I want my boyfriend to speak to her but I don’t feel comfortable telling another parent to discuss things with their child. If he hasn’t spoken to her yet, how should I approach him about the situation?”
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2 comments

  1. Good morning. Just explain to him like you explained to us. Tell him you want to have a loving blended family and you want to know your stepchildren better but you feel awkward. Once you say that though you have to stop going into the bedroom when the daughter comes around; you and your man are the adults here. That behavior seems to scream that you and your daughter are being punished for bad behavior; it seems like you are sending yourself to the room without supper. This is my perception; it is definitely not a warm behavior towards your boyfriends family. Love his chikdren and she will respond. After this is fixed, he may be more comfortable with telling her about her new sister and she might become very excited.

  2. She’s controlling the environment he needs to check that little girl before she carries this behavior into manipulation, does the mother of his kids know your pregnant have a family meeting let her know the conversation that’s about to go down and be present for it not no seperate daddy daughter convo break that bad pattern right now specially since your directly involved and your kids

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