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Baller Mail: “My Boyfriend Has Been Keeping Our Relationship A Secret and Treats All Of His Female Friends Like His Girlfriend. What Should I Do?”

If you’re going through a tough time-whether its with your relationship, your career, or just life, Baller Alert is here to give you some advice. While it can be hard to talk to family and friends out of fear of being juddged, we are here to be that listening ear. If you want to remain anonymous or don’t mind putting your business on front street, our followers will always give you the real deal and tell you what you need to know. If you would like some ballerific advice from our followers, DM your questions to @peachkyss or email at [email protected]
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“My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 years now in a long distant relationship and I never used to question his loyalty until now. He flirts online all day and when I address it he calls me a stalker/crazy. He won’t follow me or let me follow him. ALL of his female “friends” he seems to treat like girlfriends now. Coincidentally they don’t know I’m in the picture anymore. “Who needs to know will know”. Things he used to do for me he does for all of them. Buys them things and treats them to dinner. But with me, he expects me to pay or split the bill. Nothing seems to set me apart anymore. To make matters worse, he began to hide our relationship from EVERYONE because he “wants things private”. His version of private, however, had involved posting how he’s out with other women at times. We were open up until the 5th year. It’s becoming harder to trust him and I don’t know what to do next. He makes demands that I meet but never seems to compromise for me. I hadn’t met his family in the first 4 years of dating. They didn’t even know I existed. Am I as stupid as I feel? Please help.”
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3 comments

  1. your def as stupid as you feel leave that nigga he’s a boyfriend to three other bitches promise

  2. To be honest Babes he’s not even your boyfriend, he’s actually nobody boyfriend and from the sound of things he’s never been your boyfriend. It’s a new year’s and we’re in the first month it’s time to replace that nigga and get you a MAN who knows what he wants and how to handle a Woman better yet just be single and find yourself girl don’t feel stupid cause it’s a lesson learned and he don’t even know he gave you the game. Us women have all been naive, gullible, even too vulnerable, so learn your self worth and in due time you’ll come across a real Man Hun God Bless😘

  3. The fact that he didnt want you to meet his family in the first 4 years and the fact hes telling no one that your together says alot. Ask yourself if he loves you why would he want to keep you a secret? I agree with wylemina its happened to alot of us women in fact its also happened to me. You need to make a decision because if you allow it he will continue to do this to you until he can replace you. There are alot of men out there who will treat you with respect and love but people will only treat you the way you allow them too. Alot of things you wrote in the paragraph make it clear that he is just playing games with you and is way too comfortable in the relationship hes taking you for granted. It will be hard to leave him but keep yourself busy and the right man will come along.

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