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Baller Mail: “My Ex and I Were In An Abusive Relationship and He Was Arrested. For His Welcome Home Party, His Sister Invited His Ex. Should I Hold On or Let It Go?”


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“My previous relationship lasted for four years. Recently last year we became toxic towards each other and the end result he got arrested for domestic violence. Through the process we stayed in contact, encouraged each other and I also ask for leniency on his behalf which was granted. In the meantime his family was stalking me on social media. Harassing me and provoking me which worked. Me and his sister got into a fight and four counts of charges were pressed towards me but during trial all charges were was dropped. However during all the Drama my ex reached out serval times trying to defuse the situation and informed me that he had no parts in his family doings and continue to check up on me. Recently he got out of jail and a relative of his that is friends with my sister called me to tell me that he was getting out of jail early and wanted to keep that a secret from me. Recently on social media he had a welcome home party and his sister invited his ex which is his first love they were together for two years. Apart of me knew his sister would do that to distract him from wanting to continue too associate with me and now I’m just lost for words. He has expressed his love for me ” no matter what the outcome may be he will always love me, it doesn’t matter who he has been with in the past we have established way more together been through way more together, we have experience the best and the ugliest within each other and he will never have as much love for anyone els as he do for me.” I just don’t know if I should hold on or let go for good! What should I do?”
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4 comments

  1. LET IT GO! Give thanks that you have been released from something that is unhealthy and dysfunctional. His family will always have on you. His ex will always be ready and willing to smash. They have shown you who they are. Actions speask louder than words he beat you ( and will continue to beat you), his sister fought you and the ex attended the party. Keep it sexy and classy by distancing yourself. There are more men out there and a true man will see your beauty and value you. Don’t miss Mr. Right wasting time with Mr. Wrong.

  2. Let it go. The toxicity of the relationship is only gonna get worse especially since his family has been “stalking” you when you guys weren’t even together. And if his sister is pulling moves like that, baby girl ain’t no tellin what else she’s capable of. This situation sounds like it’s only gonna get more complicated, give you more headaches and stress.

    Why didn’t he tell you he was out early? And what you mean by “no matter what the outcome, he will always love you?” Cuz honestly, if this man legit wanted you and only you, the only outcome he should be expecting is to be with you.

    No girl, move on please.

  3. I do not think there is anything to hold on to. I might be wrong. Maybe this is a modern day story about Romeo and Juliet but we all know how the original story ended up. Love yourself. Your future love will be delighted to find you and defend you against all comers, even himself.

  4. Let go.. Just because you love each otheer does not mean you are meant to be good together. He does not wish to renunite with you at this time which is why he did not want you to know exacly when he was getting out. He just wants peace with you and possibly a lighter punishment.
    He also may be trying to hook back up with the ex. Either way stay away, you deserve better.

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