For today’s Baller Mail, our reader sent:
“Hi,I just met this girl not too long ago. We have been in a relationship for less than a month. I work full time and go to school full time. I’m the one who always texts and calls and anytime I don’t do it,she goes from zero to hundred real quick and threatens to leave the relationship and even blocks my number. Last week I was not feeling well but when I left class at 11, I called her but she refused to answer then I sent her a message and she responded by telling me it’s over n blocked me. I even sent her a picture of me at the emergency room to prove to her that I haven’t been feeling well that day but she couldn’t listen to me. What should I do? Move on or continue pursuing her?”
BA Response: Move on from this relationship. You are young with a lot on your plate to be chasing someone that clearly doesn’t want to be caught. If she isn’t showing you any effort this early in the relationship, what do you think she will do 6-months from now?
When people show you who they are, believe them. She clearly has too much time on her hand or is simply uninterested and looking for an easy way out. If you continue to chase her and allow this foolishness to continue, then she will run all over you. Just cut her loose and be with someone that puts in the same amount of effort as you. The relationship is still fairly new, so no love lost!⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
What advice would you give our reader?