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Baller Mail: Ladies, What Would You Do If Your Man and His Family Made Jokes About Your Culture?


If you’re going through a tough time-whether its with your relationship, your career, or just life, Baller Alert is here to give you some advice. While it can be hard to talk to family and friends out of fear of being judged, we are to here to be that listening ear. If you want to remain anonymous or don’t mind putting your business on front street, we will always give you the real deal and tell you what you need to know. If you would like some ballerific advice, email your questions to [email protected]
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“I’m in a relationship with a guy who is from another culture. I respect his culture and try to learn new things about him. Beings tho he is my man and we been in a relationship for more than 2 years he doesn’t have any respect for my culture. His family bad talks my culture when I’m around and makes jokes but I remain quite because I don’t want to get on their bad side. I feel awkward when I’m around because I’m the only one of another culture and I feel if I say something they will gang up on me. What makes the situation so much worse I thought my boyfriend would be different. When me and him are alone he bad talks my culture as well sometimes and sometimes makes jokes as well, which I don’t like. When I try to confront him on it he tells me it’s not that serious. Why he cant give me the same respect me and my family gives him.“

Well, first of all your partner is selfish, sorry to say it but that’s what it is. When no one else is on your side, you should be able to count on him to be there when you need him to be. He should be the one sticking up for you against his family. But, if he’s doing the same things that make you uncomfortable and chalking it up to something that’s “not that serious,” he’s selfish. If it’s serious to you, then it is that serious. I’d even go as far as saying he doesn’t respect you. There should never be a time where you feel uncomfortable about who you are when with your mate and there should never be a time when they make you feel that way. Although I won’t tell you to kick him to the curb, but you need to sit him down and let him know how that ish ain’t cool.
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What advice would you give our reader?

About Peachkyss

Peachkyss is the Fashion Writer and Content Curator for Baller Alert, who keeps reader up-to-date on the latest trends, the latest luxury brand collections, and how to "ball" on a budget.  Peachkyss has her Bachelors in Elementary Education with a concentration in Mathematics from Norfolk State University and Masters in Middle Grades Mathematics from Walden University.  Have a question about what your favorite celeb is wearing or fashion advice, email me at [email protected] "Style is a way to say who are you are without having to speak."

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