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Baller Mail: Men, How Would You React If Your Girl Told You She Slept With Your Homeboy Before You Two Were An Item?

If you’re going through a tough time-whether its with your relationship, your career, or just life, Baller Alert is here to give you some advice. While it can be hard to talk to family and friends out of fear of being judged, we are to here to be that listening ear. If you want to remain anonymous or don’t mind putting your business on front street, we will always give you the real deal and tell you what you need to know. If you would like some ballerific advice, email your questions to [email protected]
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Baller Mail….Message!

“Hey, Peachkyss! I’ve been dating this guy for about 8 months and he introduced me to his family. I feel like we are moving in the right direction. Well, a few days ago we had a double date with one of his close friends and his girlfriend. The entire night was awkward as hell. When I met his friend, I realized I had slept with his friend more than one time a few years prior. I don’t want to hurt my boyfriend because I really like him and we are doing so well. How do I tell him that I had a relationship with his friend before us? Please help!”
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In any relationship, honesty is the best policy. Regardless of when the situation with the friend occurred, you need to have a talk with your man and let him know as soon as possible. You don’t want to withhold information like this from him, especially when you are trying to build. But, prepare yourself for the worst. Depending on how close he is with his friend, he may not want to continue a relationship with you. It’s a pride thing when it comes to men and that’s something they cannot handle. Sit him down and just be as honest as possible. If he doesn’t stick around, just understand that things weren’t meant to be.
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What advice would you give our reader?

About Peachkyss

Peachkyss is the Fashion Writer and Content Curator for Baller Alert, who keeps reader up-to-date on the latest trends, the latest luxury brand collections, and how to "ball" on a budget.  Peachkyss has her Bachelors in Elementary Education with a concentration in Mathematics from Norfolk State University and Masters in Middle Grades Mathematics from Walden University.  Have a question about what your favorite celeb is wearing or fashion advice, email me at [email protected] "Style is a way to say who are you are without having to speak."

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