“I feel like my relationship isn’t the same anymore and Me and this person have agreed to work stuff out and we decided to give it a break I still check up on them throughout the day and I still feel like no progress has been made and the thought of losing my one and only / Bestfriend kills me but I just feel like attention has slowly shifted away from me and I’m lost and I don’t know what to do anymore …What should I do?”
Honestly, you don’t have a relationship. If the two of you are working on the relationship, why take a break? What exactly does this break entail? You stated that you check on him throughout the day, does he do the same? Is this why you feel that progress isn’t being made?
It seems that you are taking the initiative to see how he is doing but he’s not doing the same for you. When someone shows you how they feel about you, believe it. The feelings are shifting because something or someone else has his attention. You are putting too much into a relationship that’s not there. It’s time for you to let it go. If he wanted to work it out with you, then he would be going over and beyond like you are for him.
It’s time for a self-evaluation. Focus on yourself and the things you want to do. Like stated in our previous Baller Mail, “Stop making someone a priority when you are only an option to them.”
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