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Baller Mail: “My Boyfriend and I Are In A Long Distance Relationship and Haven’t Seen Each Other In Months. Am I Wrong For Asking Him To Get Tested Before We Have Sex Again?

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“ It will be my two year anniversary with my boyfriend at the end of this month. We are planning our baecation but here’s the problem: We are in a long distance relationship. I live in Atlanta and he lives in New York. Last time I saw him was thanksgiving. We FaceTime everyday  however there have been weeks in the past where he would ignore me. 🙅🏾 Although I love him and am happy to see him soon, I WANT HIM TO GET TESTED. .. Tested before we have sex again. But the problem is, he gets upset at me for asking him to get tested. Am I in the wrong? Do I seem like I don’t trust him? Should I end it if he doesn’t get tested?”

 

What advice would you give our reader?

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4 comments

  1. nothing but truth

    no your not wrong and you should get one too to just show him its not a big issue for you so it shouldn’t be for him

  2. No sis, protect ya self!!!

  3. There’s nothing wrong with it but if you feel like he needs to get tested then you obviously think he’s cheating (which he might be). If that’s the case then you shouldn’t be in a long distance relationship

  4. Require he get tested unless you don’t mind having an STD

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