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Baller Mail: “My Boyfriend and I Have Been Dating For Two Years. Is It Normal That I Haven’t Met His Kids Yet?”

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“Question : I have been dating my boyfriend for two years and we have been together in a relationship for over a year ? Is it normal that he has not introduced me to his kids yet ?”

What advice would you give our reader?

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6 comments

  1. Yes, its normal because children become attached quickly. If he is still getting to know you and accessing if you are for the long haul then he will introduce you to them.

  2. Has she met his wife yet?

  3. It depends. He should only be introducing them to you if he sees it as a serious relationship. If he doesn’t see it as being serious, he won’t see the need to introduce you. So within the first year, I could see him being hesitant. However, after 2 years, the better question to ask is what is his intention for you and the relationship, because it should be marriage. His answer to that question will give you better insight as to why he has not introduced you to them.

  4. Ummmm he’s either hiding something or not into you like that

  5. Has she been to his home? Met his friends? Family? ….kids would be a bit different

  6. If you have done something with him once a week for two years, that’s 104 times you’ve been with him. Unless his kids live in another city, it’s highly unusual at this point for you, him, and his kids never to have been in the same place at the same time, even if just to introduce you. Something is wrong with this picture. You should invite him over and tell him that the invitation includes his kids. Don’t go out with him again until you’ve met them or he’s provided an explanation that makes sense for their total absence.

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