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Baller Mail: Pregnant With My Third Child With No Help From The Father, Do I Keep The Baby Or Give It Up For Adoption


If you’re going through a tough time-whether its with your relationship, your career, or just life, Baller Alert is here to give you some advice. While it can be hard to talk to family and friends out of fear of being judged, we are here to be that listening ear. If you want to remain anonymous or don’t mind putting your business on front street, our followers will always give you the real deal and tell you what you need to know. If you would like some ballerific advice from our followers, email your questions to [email protected]
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Baller Mail…Message!
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“Hey baller alert! I’m a 26 year old young woman who’s 5 months pregnant with a guys baby that I barely know. I know I know, everyone’s probably thinking something negative about me already.
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Long story short I was in a 2 year relationship that ended very badly. It was a very domestic violent relationship. Once my ex attempted to kill me, i knew i had enough & had to get out. As time went on I fulfilled my vulnerability with a guy I met at work. We hung out a lot & eventually he started staying over my place. I was taking care of this man, giving him money, paying for his responsibilities, taking him to & from work, cooking, cleaning & everything in between. 3 months in we found out we are pregnant. I’ve never met this mans family, so I’m pretty much a secret. Being that I’m 5 months, this man hasn’t had much involvement with my pregnancy.
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I already have 2 kids who father is absent. He actually took his own life. So to be back in this absentee dad situation again kinda sucks. I’m stuck between keeping the baby & giving it up for adoption. Please give me some type of advice to help me with this situation.
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What advice would you give our reader?

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Peachkyss is the Fashion Writer and Content Curator for Baller Alert, who keeps reader up-to-date on the latest trends, the latest luxury brand collections, and how to "ball" on a budget.  Peachkyss has her Bachelors in Elementary Education with a concentration in Mathematics from Norfolk State University and Masters in Middle Grades Mathematics from Walden University.  Have a question about what your favorite celeb is wearing or fashion advice, email me at [email protected] "Style is a way to say who are you are without having to speak."

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