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Baller Mail: I Recently Found Out My Boyfriend Was Diagnosed With Schizophrenia and He Thinks I’m With The FBI. What Do I Do?

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“My man and I have been with each other now a year and a half. I recently found out he has schizophrenia. He is a retired veteran of the army. He now will take meds for the rest of his life. Basically, he still has episodes even on medication where he thinks I’m setting him up with the FBI. It’s not always like that. He is the sweetest man beyond that. Meaning he got me a diamond ring, takes me to expensive steakhouse dinners, we spend hours talking even if it’s all night and have so much in common. It’s just been an emotional roller coaster with him thinking I’m with the FBI. He thinks I’m setting him up for something, even accuses me of possibly getting rape kits. It’s been too much for me especially because I genuinely love him. I don’t know what to do but I’m emotionally drained and tired. I don’t know what to do. I feel if I leave I’m the one who outed on him when he needed me. I keep telling myself no one is perfect. But I’m tired of the delusions. What do I do ?”



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  1. You’re not married, the episodes will only get worse as time goes on. Yes people with mental conditions are the sweetest but you have to believe you will find someone else. He has to help himself, there is nothing you can do. Watch this movie it’s called A Beautiful Mind…heck look at Andre on Empire. Good luck but you gotta be strong and leave.

  2. Erikka Camille Thornton

    No since in believing or possibly endangering yourself cuz on or off meds it’s a violent situation.mental illness is on the rise,and people get not enuf help or not enuf meds!! I wrk in healthcare,it’s never ending!! Don’t end up hurt,in more ways than one.#godbless

  3. You have to choose yourself. I dated a guy with a mental illness, and it almost drove me crazy. I had to leave because the paranoia was too much. He made my life hell.

  4. Leave him ASAP, my ex had mental issues and tried to kill me. LEAVE LEAVE LEAVE BEFORE ITS TOO LATE

  5. If you want him you need to get to the root of his problems and they are DEEPER than the ocean! Sounds like the military did a number on his head. You need to prove your not FBI, rape kit!?! Something horrible happened to this man! He can turn on you that is true but if you leave him he could also become obsessed with you and hunt you down. Have you ever sat in on one of his counseling sessions? Do you guys try to work on life skills? What have you been involved in on his mental health? Here complaining but I didn’t see anything about what you have tried to do so far except sit there & take it. Meds are not magical pills, they often cause side effects that could out weight the actual problem.

    And to the person talking about watch Andre on Empire, you stupid! Might as well be a white person and say that “Boyz N Da Hood” will tell you everything you need to know about black people!!!!

    How many women have been in abuse relationships? So all those men had mental illness? Stop it!!!!

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