Ballerific Relationships – Is Giving It Up On The First Night A Good Idea?

How quick are we giving it up ladies? After three months? Six months? A year? How about throwing at him on the first night? Yup that’s right I said it. Have you ever invited him back up to your room after the first night? Don’t be shy, there’s nothing to be ashamed of because actually, it may be a good idea.

The truth is, it doesn’t really matter when you let him have it because there’s no “right time.” The unwritten girl code says “Give thy coochie when thy feels like it.” Its 2015 and we aren’t getting younger right? Might as well show him what you’re working with…after buying some protection. I know you’re thinking “He’s never going to respect me.” “Only whores give it up on the first night.” “I respect myself too much to give it up on the first night.” That’s all fine and dandy, but ever think about the benefits that may happen if you did?

Size matters

Don’t let anyone tell you they don’t care about size, because Maury has dictated that it is is a lie. Of course the motion of the ocean can really make a difference, but what’s better than unwrapping a nice big present? Giving it up on the first night eliminates that awful tiny surprise you may get after waiting 90-days. This way you already know what to expect.

Compatibility

The glove must always fit. Always. Hanky-panky on the first night could really spark a connection or open your eyes to a horrible reality. On the first night you can see how well you get along in bed. This can set a tone for the future or you can just end it right there. This way, there is no time wasted. You’re getting right to the point. After the first night you can really determine if this is going to be a hit it and quit it or the beginning of relationship.

Just Because

Is because you want to a valid answer? Yes it is. Because you haven’t had any in a while and you just want to release some stress is a very valid answer. Say you’re not looking for anything serious and you wanted someone to hang out with for the night. What’s wrong with finishing off the night? Nothing at all. If you want it, take it.

Listen, no one is judging you. Have fun. There’s always the thought of him thinking you’re easy in the back of your mind, but let that go. Letting him put his hand in your cookie jar on the first night eliminates all surprises in the long run and could spark an amazing relationship.