Relationships

We’ve all heard the saying, “Want to get over someone get under someone new.” But, do you honestly get over them? Depending on how long the two of you were together, you will not get over them as quickly as you would like to. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Often times when you …

⠀⠀ Sisterwives. We’re starting to hear the term a lot more in pop culture. It’s becoming the new way to define polygamy. While the term may be fresh, polygamy has been in the history of relationships for thousands of years. Today, people like #DerayDavis and Taz and his Angels are …

Growing up, many of us had dreams of how our wedding day would look. Some of us even pictured our future spouse’s appearance and character. Everything we saw on television made marriage look so easy and showed nothing but happiness. Somewhere along the way, the union of two people became …

Breakups can be the hardest thing to get through for most people. The relationship either ended badly or was a mutual decision. Regardless of how the relationship came to an end though, some former couples rather leave the relationship null and void. The type of relationship you had determines the …

Earlier this week, I was driving home, listening to the radio. A caller called into the radio station and stated that she gives her husband a hall pass to sleep with other women because she lost her sex drive after having children. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ The talk of hall passes has …

– blogged by @lanaladonna ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ “Somebody get this jigaboo away from me,” haha no but really. Ladies, I think we all can agree that the worst thing a guy can do is sit (well try to at least) in your face all night after he buys you a drink. How …

There are many situations that we go through in relationships from infidelities to the lies. But, that is not the main issue nowadays. The issue that many people face today is having intercourse with someone that they love and trust without wearing protection. I recently received a Baller Mail but …

Have you ever ended a relationship but your siblings continued to be your ex’s friend? Have you gotten in a relationship and your significant other’s siblings are still friends with your ex?   I’ve never understood this kind of situation. Regardless of how you and your ex broke up, your …

I recently saw an acquaintance post on their social media account that everyone lies about their body count. That got me to thinking about a previous article that I wrote asking, “Should a person’s body count matter in a relationship?”   Many stated that it shouldn’t matter, while others made …

Two days into 2018 and the devil is busy. You have already made your New Year’s resolutions and promised to move forward in your life, then you get hit with the, “Hey Big Head” text. It took you a while to get over their ashy ass and now they think …

-blogged by @lanaladonna How many of us have had to pop-up on our significant other to catch them in the act of cheating, or being up to no good. Some may feel the need to do so to get the truth out of their significant other, while others may do …

When you ask women whether or not if all men cheat, majority will answer with a hard yes. Most of the time, when women have been hurt continuously by men, we end up putting men in one category.   Often times, some women confuse cheating with love. “I cheat on …

Many are probably wondering, “What is a stay ready bag?” Well, it’s a bag that ladies keep in their trunk to ensure that they’re always ready for a rendezvous. Now, don’t confuse this with a hoe bag. A hoe bag will have the same contents in it as the “Stay …

-blogged by: @worldwidekeege Celebrity breakups & makeups are always the best storylines of Hollywood.  Whether it’s for the sake of publicity or due to some form of a love triangle, these couples have had our heads spinning all year.   Here are Baller Alert’s top 4 Celebrity Break-Ups for 2017 …

Relationships are built on trust and communication. When you lack the two in a relationship, that makes it hard to move forward. You have to trust your mate, especially if you are planning to be together in the long run. Many of us enter relationships with friends of the opposite …

I don’t know who has put out this notion that the “side chicks be winning.” Like, what are they exactly winning? They are playing a position that can be easily be fulfilled by the next person. Let’s just say that the guy does upgrade you from the side chick to …

⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ There is this old saying that if you buy a man shoes he will walk out of your life. At first glance, this seems to be right on the money because I’ve witnessed many women go beyond the call of duty for their man, only for him to leave …

The holidays are supposed to be the most joyous times of the year. You are to spend those moments with loved ones without any madness occurring. But what happens when you begin to do a little cleaning for the holidays and come across a few items that have been taped …

We have all been in relationships that have either ended abruptly due to certain situations or ended without any kind of explanation. Many feel that certain questions have to be answered on why the relationship ended or what changed. There is nothing wrong with receiving closure from someone that you …

No one is perfect and if we all examined ourselves honestly, we would see areas that we need to drastically improve on. Some of us need better careers; others are in need of being mature about our finances. Communication is vital. While, many of us “talk” about our problems, rarely …