Relationships

⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ I spend a considerable amount of time cracking jokes and speaking about the woes of love. Many have had poor experiences with love, which then dictates their ability to relate. In all honesty, it’s a beautiful thing. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ However, people and their entitlement in conjunction with selfishness have perverted …

Trust is an important factor in a relationship. Once the trust has been broken, it’s kind of hard to build it back up.   Often times when the trust is broken, some relationships don’t last. If the relationship continues, each partner is going to try and work through the kinks …

When in a relationship, you have to set time aside time for the two of you to enjoy one another. Date night should take place often to keep it fresh.   The issue with some dates is the lack of attention from either party. Nowadays, when people go on dates …

When it comes to our baes, we always intend to have their back no matter what. But sometimes, they just make it really difficult to support their crazy antics.   In the age of social media, trolls have become a hot status that many people inspire to obtain. Why? Because …

Dating can be difficult when trying to find someone that’s compatible with you, especially if you are just getting out of a relationship. The most difficult part about dating is ensuring that the person is going to be good to your kids.   One thing you don’t want to do …

When you love someone, you try to meet them halfway on things. The more comfortable you are with Bae, the more open your love will be with the things that turn him/her on. Sometimes you may be comfortable with these things and will fulfill his/her kinkiness. At other times, you …

I like to tell everyone each relationship is different, but there is one thing that I do not just go with the flow about- and that’s the discussion of finances. My feeling is the sooner the better. It’s not first-date conversations, but it’s definitely up there with the short term …

There is nothing hard in life. There are things that require more discipline than others and being faithful is one of them. You have to learn to quiet your quest to conquer. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Individuals seem to struggle with “faithfulness” because of immaturity and lack of self control. Many are caught …

Entitlement is that word that messes us all up. It falsely gives us hope that we as individuals deserve certain privileges, when in actuality-we do not. When we date individuals, that sense of entitlement makes us feel that we should have access to all parts of them. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ The very …

Many have their interpretation of what should be discussed with their partner and what should be excluded. If you are trying to have a serious relationship with your new boo that you’ve been dating for a while, you have to start your relationship with honesty. You don’t want to go …

Love is a word that you don’t throw around loosely, especially when it comes to your heart and emotions. When you love someone, you will do whatever it takes to see them smile. We can love as many people as we want because our hearts are so pure and genuine. …

Do I have your attention? Great, I am  glad you took the time read beyond just the title. Many will read the title and stop there because they don’t want to catch the context of the entire blog. Now, lets get into the real discussion that seems to make Black Women …

As you prepare to slave in the kitchen with at least two generations of women in your family, you may be thinking to invite that special guy you’ve been talking to for months. Of course, you want this moment to be special because he will be meeting the family for …

When you pride yourself on being a good person, consistently giving your all to the relationships you cherish, it’s almost impossible to feel like you’ve lost when things go left. Whether you’ve called it quits because of your mate’s infidelities or you’ve just grown apart, it’s hard to believe you …

I don’t know who put out this notion that men have to ask women for their number or to go out on a date. Whoever created this crap can kick rocks with the quickness.   Why should a woman have to wait for a man to ask for her number …

  Dear F*ck Girl, ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ I get it you’ve been hurt and because of that hurt, you hurt others. The last dude you were with blacked your eyes. The one before that cheated on you repeatedly and told you the random females that were nothing, but they were. Then there …

Relationships are hard as hell, whether you are dating or married. They require so much from both parties to keep the sparks flowing just like it did at the beginning of the relationship.   As women, we try to be the backbone that our man needs to show how much …

It’s no secret that a good portion of women, if not all, have dealt with bullsh*t and consequently, they have been either labeled “insecure” or categorized as having “trust issues.” The thing is maybe, just maybe the problem isn’t these females and their perceived issues. Maybe the problem is the …

Relationships are going to have their ups and downs, whether it’s due to trust, communication, finances, infidelity or something else. One factor that shouldn’t cause a relationship to go south, but normally does, is the relationship with the mother.   Normally, the mother doesn’t feel like her child’s significant other …

Relationships are difficult from start to finish (if it comes to that). You laugh, cry, break up, cuss each other out, make love and do it all over again. However, that rollercoaster ride is what makes it beautiful. You learn about one another and become one mold that can never …