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If You Don’t Know How To Please Yourself, How Can You Expect Your Significant Other To?

Ladies, do you understand how important it is to learn your body inside and out? Believe it or not, there are so many women that look for their mate to fulfill their every need when in actuality, they have no clue as to what they truly desire. Not knowing what you desire falls under not knowing your body. How can you expect a man or woman to pleasure you when you don’t know your hotspots or positions to make you climax?

Many women turn their nose up to masturbation. In my opinion, when a woman masturbates, she is taking the time to find her pleasure spots. These pleasure spots will lead to orgasms for some, and it allows you to know what will get you there so you can share with your partner. According to doctors, about 10 to 20% of women have never experienced an orgasm. This is due to women not knowing their body or being uncomfortable with exploring their sexual needs.

Most of the time, women don’t know how to masturbate. Honestly, there is no right or wrong way to pleasure yourself. This is why you should find a quiet and relaxing area in your home, play some x-rated music that gets you in the mood or watch a little porn. The key factor in masturbating is relaxation. If you don’t do anything else, just relax and do what feels right to you.

Once you have learned what turns you on, you can now teach your mate, so that you can finally have your orgasm with them.

Why do you think it’s so hard for women to pleasure themselves?

About Peachkyss

Peachkyss is the Fashion Writer and Content Curator for Baller Alert, who keeps reader up-to-date on the latest trends, the latest luxury brand collections, and how to "ball" on a budget.  Peachkyss has her Bachelors in Elementary Education with a concentration in Mathematics from Norfolk State University and Masters in Middle Grades Mathematics from Walden University.  Have a question about what your favorite celeb is wearing or fashion advice, email me at [email protected] "Style is a way to say who are you are without having to speak."

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