Ladies, you have to learn your body. There are so many women that look for their mate to fulfill their every need when in actuality they have no clue to what they truly desire. Not knowing what you desire falls under not knowing your body inside and out. How can you expect a man or woman to pleasure you when you don’t know your hotspots or positions to make you climax?
Believe it or not, many women turn their nose up to masturbating. In my opinion, when a woman masturbates, she is taking the time to find her pleasure spots. These pleasure spots will lead to orgasms for some. According to doctors, about 10 to 20% of all women have never experienced an orgasm. This is due to women not knowing their body or uncomfortable with exploring their sexual needs.
Most of the time, women don’t know how to masturbate. Honestly, there is no right or wrong way to pleasure yourself. This why you should find a quiet and relaxing area in your home, play some x-rated music that gets you in the mood, or watch a little porn. The key factor in masturbating is relaxation. If you don’t do anything else, just relax and do what feels right to you.
Once you learn what turns you on, you can now teach your mate, so that you can finally have your orgasm with them.
Do you masturbate for fun or to learn your body?