As you prepare to slave in the kitchen with at least two generations of women in your family, you may be thinking to invite that special guy you’ve been talking to for months. Of course, you want this moment to be special because he will be meeting the family for …
Read More »How You Gonna Upgrade From Me, What’s Higher Than Number One?
When you pride yourself on being a good person, consistently giving your all to the relationships you cherish, it’s almost impossible to feel like you’ve lost when things go left. Whether you’ve called it quits because of your mate’s infidelities or you’ve just grown apart, it’s hard to believe you …
Read More »Dear F*ck Girl, Thank You For Ruining Another Good Dude and His Perception Of Women
Dear F*ck Girl, ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ I get it you’ve been hurt and because of that hurt, you hurt others. The last dude you were with blacked your eyes. The one before that cheated on you repeatedly and told you the random females that were nothing, but they were. Then there …
Read More »Why Do You Care Who I’m Dating; Aren’t We Over?
When a relationship is over, it’s over. You are no longer obligated to know what the other person has going on in their personal life whatsoever, especially when it comes to dating. Moving on can be hard for some people who feel like they have invested so much time …
Read More »I Don’t Have Trust Issues and I’m Not Insecure, I Just Recognize Your F*ckboy Tendencies
It’s no secret that a good portion of women, if not all, have dealt with bullsh*t and consequently, they have been either labeled “insecure” or categorized as having “trust issues.” The thing is maybe, just maybe the problem isn’t these females and their perceived issues. Maybe the problem is the …
Read More »I Don’t Give A Damn If Your Mama Don’t Like Me, I’m Not Screwing Her
Relationships are going to have their ups and downs, whether it’s due to trust, communication, finances, infidelity or something else. One factor that shouldn’t cause a relationship to go south, but normally does, is the relationship with the mother. Normally, the mother doesn’t feel like her child’s significant other …
Read More »5 Keys to a Prosperous Relationship
Relationships are difficult from start to finish (if it comes to that). You laugh, cry, break up, cuss each other out, make love and do it all over again. However, that rollercoaster ride is what makes it beautiful. You learn about one another and become one mold that can never …
Read More »Look, I’m Grown I Can Have A One Night Stand If I Choose To
One thing that puzzles me is how another person can tell you what to do with your body. We are all adults and every decision that we make is ours, no one else’s. One of the most common decisions people seem to judge others on is their sex life, …
Read More »Let’s Talk: Fellas, Are Your Friends a Bad Influence On You?
Let’s say your girl is everything you could ever want in a partner — but she hates your friends and you have no idea why. In order to maintain a healthy relationship, you must recognize harmful people and their habits early. So fellas, here are a few ways to recognize …
Read More »If She Has Access To You, I Don’t Want You
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ I’m territorial like no other with family, friends and the guy that has my attention. Maybe it’s because I’m an Aries. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ If I am dealing with someone and he has an ex or a drive by that won’t move on, I can not deal with you. I mentally …
Read More »Let’s Talk: How Do You Teach Your Mate To Please You?
There are some things that our mates should know about us when it comes to our likes and dislikes. Although they are supposed to know, some of them clearly have no idea. It’s not that they are not into you, they just don’t pay attention like they’re supposed to. …
Read More »Believe People The First Time They Show You Who They Are
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ There is a quote that says “excuses are tools of incompetence that build monuments of nothingness.” So it’s safe to say these “aint sh*t” people came from poor excuses. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ I don’t know if it’s naivety, stupidity or willful ignorance; maybe it’s good sex, but we can see people …
Read More »Ten Years Of Dating and Still No Ring, Of Course I’ll Continue To Be Your Long-Term Girlfriend
People have their meanings of a relationship entails and it’s obvious that there are no set rules to this dating life. Every situation that we go through, we handle based on experience, feelings, and emotions. You have to see what works for the relationship, your significant other, but most importantly, …
Read More »Let’s Talk: Why Are We So Willing to Date Down?
Before we truly dive into this topic, let’s first determine what “dating down” actually means. Does “dating down” mean dating someone who’s less attractive than you? Someone with less money than you? Someone who’s less successful than you? Does “dating down” mean that you’re settling for whatever comes your way? …
Read More »If You Give Away The Milk Why Would He Buy The Cow? Let’s Talk: Acting like a Wife Before Marriage
Marriage is a sacred unity between two individuals. Once you are married, the “I” becomes “we.” Just about everything you do would have to be discussed with your spouse to prevent arguments or disagreements. Like they say, “Happy Wife Happy Life.” Marriage involves a lot of trust and communication. …
Read More »“I Refuse To Go Over and Beyond For A Man That’s Going To Cheat Anyway,” Says Ms. Lonely
I’m sure you read the title and instantly thought, “wtf!” Now that I have your attention, I want to talk to my ladies about men that cheat. Ladies, has someone in your life made you mad or upset due to their cheating ways? Did you stay after finding out? Are …
Read More »Let’s Talk: Is He or She Interested In Me or Just Throwing Mixed Signals?
Trying to understand people can be hard as hell. The way they talk to you and treat you can throw you for a loop, especially when you feel like you are more than interested in them then they are in you. The worse …
Read More »5 Ways Women Can Take Control In The Bedroom
When it comes to sex, there are many women who are afraid to take control. They are so use to a man taking lead that they forget that a man loves sitting back and watching her show off her moves. It seems that some women are afraid to take lead …
Read More »Let’s Talk: Have You Accidentally Fell For Someone That You Didn’t Intend To Fall For?
The first thing that crossed your mind once you read the title is, “How can you fall for someone by accident?” Well, I’m here to tell you it’s true and it can happen. People come in and out of your life for different reasons. You don’t know their purpose …
Read More »Let’s Talk: Have You Ever Friend Zoned The Wrong Guy/Girl?
The worst feeling is being friend zoned by someone that you are attracted to. If you were placed there, that clearly means the other person wasn’t into you the same way you were. But what happens when you have placed the wrong person in the friend zone? At the …
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