“What do men with money and power want from women?”
Crossing paths with many financially stable men and ambitious women, I’ve seen the extremes of needs/wants on both sides of this topic. Which leads me to ultimately conclude that two major factors must be considered before anyone can answer such a broad question.
Factor 1: An individual’s personal beliefs, values and standards related to relationships is the starting place.
Factor 2: When individuals bring Factor 1 into contact with others, the compatibility between parties dictates whether or not the prospective relationship satisfies the couple’s definition of fulfillment.
What rich men look for are women that are not only comfortable with their own “Factor 1 Reality”, but women that know how to bring their own truth into another’s reality in a way that supplements what they both feel is a good relationship for them.
I chuckle at women that simply don’t want to accept that being “independent and self-sufficient” does not have to exclude men. Some women really do need a man to be happy. What’s wrong with that? Not everyone is meant to be strong and alone just as not everyone is made to be a successful business person or politician. Women with too much to prove also display major insecurities about being vulnerable in ways that women who are not ashamed of needing men do not. So what do rich men want from women?
Ladies that are not ashamed to be vulnerable, honest and most of all, interesting and friendly. As long as a woman is comfortable with her answers for Factors 1 and 2, she will be comfortable being vulnerable, honest, interesting and friendly. Not to say all “regular” women don’t understand this fact, but it’s been my experience that women living the fast life understand what rich men want and are willing to support such wants and needs- while “regular” women are busy lecturing these men about “what they should” versus what they actually want.
I had a woman comment once, “Would President Obama date a ho, stripper or groupie?”
To that I say, we have no idea how Michelle gets down in private with her hubby. What makes people think that educated, high performing members of society that have achieved admirable success beyond the reach of most people- don’t get off on something?
“A woman in the streets but a freak in the bed” is a saying based on the premise of “balance.” How much a woman can balance her “lady” and “inner ho” is key. Some men want more “ho” than lady, some want more lady than “ho.” What rich men want is a woman that won’t try to force him to choose one over the other!