Baller Mail: “My Husband Cheated and Contracted Gonorrhea From A Stranger. Should I Forgive or Move On With My Life?”

For today’s Baller Mail, our reader sent:

“My husband and I have been together for 4 years, married For 1 year. We have a beautiful 6 month old. Even though we both have decent jobs, we are still struggling just to make ends meet. Besides our financial issues though, our relationship has been perfect since the beginning. He is a great father and my best friend. Recently he told me that he had been having penile discharge, we went to the doctor where they diagnosed him with gonorrhea. For days he swore up and down that he must’ve gotten it from a dirty toilet seat, or a hotel room towel. He even tried accusing me of infidelity. Finally today, he admitted that he got head from a random stranger 3 months ago. I am so hurt and disgusted. Not only did he step out on our brand new marriage, but he exposed me to an STD and now I have to get tested for any other STDs he may have contracted. I know that I can do better, but I have a small baby that I have to think about and I have no money to be on my own with a baby right now. He says it was only that one time, a lapse in judgement and will never happen again. He seems really remorseful. I want to forgive him and forget this even happened, but I feel stupid for even considering forgiving him. I know our relationship will never be the same. What do you guys think I should do…..Should I forgive my lying, cheating, disgusting husband for the sake of my new family, or just move on with my life?”
What advice would you give our reader?

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  1. Just found out mine did similar with an Uber passenger while I was pregnant with our second child. Curious to know what you decided. I don’t think I can live with it and stay. I’m disgusted by my husbands actions

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