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“I need help. I decided to dress sexy for my husband to spice up the relationship. Rather than him appreciating the effort or complimenting me, he just laughed. Now, I feel embarrassed, hurt, and unappreciated. What should I do? Please Help!!!!”
Well, girrrrlllll! We told you that here at Baller Alert that we are going to be honest without sugarcoating the obvious. As quiet as it’s kept, he may be cheating. A husband shouldn’t be laughing in the first place of his wife’s initiative to dressing sexy, whether it is for the bedroom or a night out. He should be jumping your bones.
My initial response to the laughter would be to ask him what the f*ck is so damn funny and then curse his a$$ out. Take it as a sign that he doesn’t appreciate you. The first thing that you need to do is work on yourself and become comfortable with who you are. It seems that you are not confident with your body because the laugh shouldn’t have bothered you.
If your spouse can’t appreciate your efforts in spicing things up, then you need to express how you feel with confidence. Let him know how that sh*t affected you.
Remember, there is always someone out there that will appreciate every effort you put in.
What advice would you give our reader?