Baller Mail: “My Boyfriend and I Are In A Long Distance Relationship and Haven’t Seen Each Other In Months. Am I Wrong For Asking Him To Get Tested Before We Have Sex Again?

If you’re going through a tough time-whether its with your relationship, your career, or just life, Baller Alert is here to give you some advice. While it can be hard to talk to family and friends out of fear of being judged, we are here to be that listening ear. If you want to remain anonymous or don’t mind putting your business on front street, our followers will always give you the real deal and tell you what you need to know. If you would like some ballerific advice from our followers, DM your questions to @peachkyss or email at [email protected]


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“ It will be my two year anniversary with my boyfriend at the end of this month. We are planning our baecation but here’s the problem: We are in a long distance relationship. I live in Atlanta and he lives in New York. Last time I saw him was thanksgiving. We FaceTime everyday  however there have been weeks in the past where he would ignore me. ?? Although I love him and am happy to see him soon, I WANT HIM TO GET TESTED. .. Tested before we have sex again. But the problem is, he gets upset at me for asking him to get tested. Am I in the wrong? Do I seem like I don’t trust him? Should I end it if he doesn’t get tested?”


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