In my line of business I get tons of requests from your regular Joe, law officials, A-listers and even ballers listed on this site for some of the craziest fetishes and some tame ones. I’ve come across the fact that most are interested in being dominated by a female. That’s where, MizCaramelVixen, comes into play.
A famous pro athlete contacted me last year on the sneak tip. Leaving tweets and DMs asking about what it is I do. In my head I’m like “kneegrow please you know what EYE do when you hit that follow.” But whatev I’ll play dumb. Needless to say this individual wanted to be tied up and spanked. He couldn’t tell his girl because it would’ve ruined his ‘ship. Think about it…you’re dating a pro athlete and he says to you, “Boo I want you to spank me like a bitch before I beat that pussy up.” You would give this kneegrow the side eye SOOO much your eye would be stuck. Smh…don’t lie. You would. I would.
We met several times and I gave him exactly what he wanted. Majority of men that holds a position of power at work wants to release it all and be submissive in the bedroom. Not ALL but definitely majority do. How can you tell? Great question. We’ll get into that later…but first…
Visit your neighborhood sex store or check on amazon and get you some toys for some light pain & teasing.
-Under Bed Restraints
-Paddle (get one that has a heart design or anyone that has no wood, you’re not trying to beat the shit out of him, right?)
Now that you’ve got your punishing items, it’s time to get your outfit to complete this fantasy, I recommend the following in all black.
– Lace Bra
– Thigh Highs
-Lace Garter Belt
For you plus sized women you can do the same or substitute for a black teddy or a lingerie outfit that makes YOU feel comfy.
Remember if you don’t feel comfortable you won’t feel dominant ladies. You HAVE to be comfortable in your skin and carry yourself as the BOSS BITCH in charge. Put on some red lipstick and let’s get to it! *cracks whip*
I recommend you set up before he gets home. Light a few candles around the bedroom, put the restraints under the bed, handcuffs, massage oil on the dresser along with the blindfold. Take your paddle and put it on HIS side of the bed. He’ll think it’s for you when in reality it’s for his clueless ass.
Wait for him in the hallway with your all black on, legs spread slightly apart, hands on your hips, showing you’re in charge. Now here’s the test to see if he’s willing to be your submissive sex slave.
*door opens* in walks your “him”, he complements how good you look. He walks over to you and comes in for a kiss. Turn your head to not get kissed, look back at him and say sternly,”Who gave you permission to kiss me?” While pulling him by his shirt closer to you. Come in to kiss him, lips part and when he gets closer, bite his bottom lip lightly, turn around, walk sensuously away and say, “follow me. NOW!”
He will…trust me.
Stayed tuned to balleralert.com for tips to dominate your him in the bedroom, coming soon!