Cam Newton has never been one to shy away from a bold take, whether he’s on the field or behind a microphone.
During an appearance on the “Talk Les Show” with Courtside Les, the former MVP got candid about his perspective on marriage, commitment, and the legalities of love.
For Cam, it isn’t about a government stamp of approval, it’s about the energy between two people. When asked if commitment means marriage to him, he made it clear that he prioritizes a genuine connection over a legal obligation, explaining his philosophy by saying, “I want to be around who want to be around me. I like volunteers. I don’t like hostages.”
The conversation shifted when the host pushed for clarity on what he meant by “hostages” in a relationship. Cam explained that a piece of paper doesn’t necessarily equate to true devotion, noting that, “Listen, that’s a hostage. She’s holding you hostage. You’re holding me hostage. He just wants you to be happy. And if he’s the person that’s bringing you happy, you can have marriage with no commitment. And you don’t have to have marriage to have a commitment. It’s fine as long as he has his life partner.”
When the host asked directly, “So you want the life partner and it doesn’t have to be like signed and sealed on the government papers?” Cam doubled down. He argued that society often makes this concept harder to understand than it needs to be. To illustrate his point, he drew an analogy to the history of marriage equality in the U.S., pointing out that people loved who they loved long before the law caught up. He explained his reasoning by saying, “If you think about it, people always try to make that weird to understand and he uses this analogy a lot. Do you remember there was a time—I don’t even think it was 2013—but gay marriages was not…”
After the host clarified the timeline was closer to 2015, Cam continued, “But what about the people who knew that they liked what they liked, loved what they loved, legally they could not. Feel me?”
The analogy led to a brief moment of confusion when the host jokingly asked, “Well, Cam, are you telling us that you’re gay?” Cam was quick to shut that down while staying on track with his message, replying, “No, I’m not saying that. I’m just… You took it there. I’m saying that.” For Cam, the bottom line is simple: love should be a choice made every day by two volunteers, not a legal contract that keeps people feeling stuck.
“I like volunteers. I don’t like hostages.”
Cam Newton compares marriage to being held “hostage” and says you don’t have to have marriage to have a commitment.
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