Relationships

The Best Platforms For Online Dating

In today’s world, we want everything convenient and at our disposal. Whether it’s how we ingest news, continue our education, or even how we shop; one thing is for sure, it must be easy and fast. The same can be said about dating. While some of us are traditional happenstance …

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Let’s Talk: Can You Change A Man?

  ⠀⠀⠀⠀ In the illustrious words of my incredibly wise mother, “You can’t change a man you deal with, but you can most definitely change THE man you deal with”. I’m going to let that sink in for a minute. I once was foolish enough to believe that I could …

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Let’s Talk: Dating Multiple People At Once

blogged by @baetoven_ There are many people who view serial dating in a negative way, but in the quick-paced society we live in today, it’s typical for people to date more than one person. For some, it’s the best way to find out what you’re really looking for, it’s time-efficient, …

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Let’s Talk: Why Are We So Willing to Date Down?

Before we truly dive into this topic, let’s first determine what “dating down” actually means. Does “dating down” mean dating someone who’s less attractive than you? Someone with less money than you? Someone who’s less successful than you? Does “dating down” mean that you’re settling for whatever comes your way? …

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Emotional Abuse Will Destroy You And The Relationship

  When we think of an abusive relationship, most of us often think of one where one party physically assaults the other. Do we ever think about mental and emotional abuse? We place this light on domestic violence and its physical implications, but fail to understand the long term effects …

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Let’s Talk: Is There A Such Thing As A Soulmate?

blogged by @baetoven_ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Everyone wants to be able to find someone they connect with on a magical level: a soulmate. The idea of finding one seems dubious, but they come around at the most unexpected times. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Upon meeting a soulmate, it seems like you’ve known them forever. They …

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Let’s Talk: Is The 30- Day Sex Rule Necessary?

Back in the day, sex was this huge taboo thing and all “respectable” women waited until marriage. Those who couldn’t , had some parameters thus women had the infamous probationary period. As women have become more sexually liberated over the decades, more have steered clear of celibacy , abstinence and …

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Why Is The Responsibility Put On Women To Keep Their Mate?

⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Earlier this year, I was driving with my friend, gossiping and catching up, when he saw his uncle outside in the neighborhood. It had been some years since the two had seen each other and he had no idea how close his uncle stayed. After the expected formalities and …

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Let’s Talk: Are Your Sibling’s Friends Off Limits?

⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ When I saw this assignment, I laughed a robust laugh because I’m in this predicament as we speak. My youngest sibling is seven years my senior. By all accounts he can not be my father, but my brother swears he is. And for majority of my life, I’ve given …

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