Relationships

There is this place in time, right before a relationship, when a man starts to really like the girl he’s dating. He wants to see her all the time, take up all of her time and be around her when ever possible. This is the making or breaking point of …

Value is something that we should carry around like we do our identity. Actually, value should be a necessary part of our identity. By valuing ourselves, no matter how many butterflies this other person instantly brings out in us, we are able to draw the necessary boundaries that are essential …

First dates may easily be one of the most awkward human encounters there are. There you are, sitting with a a complete stranger, trying to convince them you are the right pick. You ask all the same questions that render useless information about each other, like “what’s your favorite color” …

Women always complain about how their partner isn’t romantic enough for them, while the partner complains about how romancing women typically comes with a hefty price tag. Ive seen both: partners who can’t even spell romance, let alone give it, and women who think romance should cost no less than …

Why do we sell ourselves a dream over and over again? You know that dream that you’re going to meet someone and have the best life with them ever? You know that dream where the person you meet just automatically sees how great you are and does everything for you? …

The confident woman lets her light shine through. She holds her head high and takes life by the balls, as she should. Yet there happens to be a few instances where a woman can feel powerless, or at least that’s what she’s conjured up in her mind to believe at …

  Just let it fly. No one ever wants to fold. You know that feeling when you want to talk to someone but don’t want to hit them up? We need to get rid of that. We’re built around miscommunication and suppressed feelings. Who cares if you were the last …

You and bae have been arguing for 14 days straight, and are literally one argument away from killing each other. No matter what, you all can’t see eye to eye, can’t stop being petty, and can’t stop the madness. So what do you do? More arguing may end in homicide, …

Being single was definitely new to me up until a year ago, when I ended a three year relationship with who I thought was the love of my life.  Before that I was in a four year relationship, so being single was not only new to me, but scary as …

“What’s the perfect girl if it’s not the perfect time” — Big Sean. There’s timing in everything and we’re the generation that doesn’t understand that. Or I should say we’re the generation that realizes it when it’s too late. These days, we spend our time trying to make life fit into our plans …

Sagittarius, I hope you enjoyed your season, but it’s time for the practical, and dedicated Capricorn to celebrate.   According to Astrology Companion, Capricorn’s require a lot of recognition and feeling like they are useful, in order to feel truly satisfied with their lives. Recognition can come from love, or …

You know that one ex you just can’t seem to get over? No matter how many other people you date, sleep with, or entertain, they don’t touch you the same, listen to you the same, or fill that empty hole burrowing into your heart. Well who said you had to …

If you have a television, radio, cell phone or a talkative friend you have heard about cheaters. We all have a theory in our mind on why people cheat, but I am going to share the real reason why people cheat. Some things in life are out of your control, …

This post is inspired in part by an episode of Black Ink Crew Chicago. Aside from the fact that the entire cast is more attractive than NY’s, I think it’s just as good as any other gossip driven, relationship ruining, reality television show. So just like every other Monday, I …

Do you have any idea of what makes your man tick? I was raised to not only require that a man treat me as a queen, but for me to treat him like a king also. Men like to be catered to as well ladies, and I’m not just talking …

Does sex really determine the outcome of a relationship? In the past few years, my best friendships, and even relationships, were with men who I decided to “wait” with. I  decided to cut back  on sex because of soul ties. A person can leave you with more baggage than expected …

Wouldn’t it be nice if we lived in a world in which people told you exactly how they felt? Wouldn’t it be amazing to be with someone who was openly forward about their intentions and what they’re looking for? Sometimes, there are people who practice this, but most times people …

Men are often stereotyped as the serial cheater but women are known to be the sneaky cheater. Not just any kind of sneaky: 007 James Bond, secret mission, sneaky. Women don’t get caught nearly as much as men, and are able to maintain an affair for a long time before …

Casual sex, when it works, is an amazing thing: two consenting individuals fulfilling each other’s sexual desires, without the stress of a commitment or relationship. Again, when it works. Often times before we realize it, after we’ve already become well addicted to the healing powers of good sex, and been …

People are very quick to insult the woman who stays with their man through thick and thin: calling her insecure, naive, and stupid. Last weeks episode of Love and Hip Hop, was the perfect example: Nia Riley was blasted on twitter, Instagram and every other social media outlet, for standing …