Have You Been Diagnosed With R.A.D.D?

R.A.D.D is a serious condition that is plaguing a lot of young adults these days. It affects the heart, brain and occasionally the sexual organs. Many who have been infected with R.A.D.D find themselves having trouble focusing, slightly depressed and often confused. R.A.D.D which stands for Relationship Attention Deficit Disorder is a condition that causes a person to lose interest in their relationship in an alarming rate. Whether it be in the courting stages or well into dating, relationships aren’t lasting as long as they used to. Although there’s not a cure, there are preventive measures to make sure you don’t get infected with R.A.D.D.

 

– Communication: Actively communicating with your partner will guarantee that you don’t contract R.A.D.D. With every conversation try to find out something new about the person you’re choosing to have a relationship with. Texts are convenient but even a  conversation as short as 15 minutes a day can do wonders on the heart.

 

– Quality Time: No matter how busy your life is, take a little time for you and your mate to actually be together, alone. Whether it’s a small blockbuster night at home or a romantic date at a restaurant, quality time has been proven to spark the flames in most dull relationships. 

 

– Spice It Up: R.A.D.D often begins when something is lacking physically in the bedroom. Romance that once started off great can become dull in an alarming amount of time. Spicing up the sex life can get you back on track. Do a couple of things that you never thought you’d do: toys, threesomes, whatever, just do something new. 

 

– Be Realistic: Sometimes no matter how much you want it to work it just won’t and you find yourself hit with R.A.D.D. The best thing you can do at times is move on and don’t allow R.A.D.D to become a reoccurring problem. R.A.D.D happens to everyone at some point, it only becomes problematic when you have to deal with it all of the time.

 

If you find yourself experiencing R.A.D.D often, please consult your local psychologist, BFF or big mama for help immediately.