Over and over we have seen people get carried away with allowing social media to define their relationship. In other words, if your significant other doesn’t post you, then it’s not real. I’m not sure where the disconnect happened but people seem to think that their relationship needs an approval …
Read More »After A Breakup, Getting Under Someone New To Get Over Them May Not Be The Best Decision
We’ve all heard the saying, “Want to get over someone get under someone new.” But, do you honestly get over them? Depending on how long the two of you were together, you will not get over them as quickly as you would like to. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Often times when you …
Read More »Let’s Talk: Is Marriage No Longer About Love and Just a Fad?
Growing up, many of us had dreams of how our wedding day would look. Some of us even pictured our future spouse’s appearance and character. Everything we saw on television made marriage look so easy and showed nothing but happiness. Somewhere along the way, the union of two people became …
Read More »Why Did My Ex Block Me On Social Media?
Breakups can be the hardest thing to get through for most people. The relationship either ended badly or was a mutual decision. Regardless of how the relationship came to an end though, some former couples rather leave the relationship null and void. The type of relationship you had determines the …
Read More »A Pass? Boy Bye This Isn’t High School
Earlier this week, I was driving home, listening to the radio. A caller called into the radio station and stated that she gives her husband a hall pass to sleep with other women because she lost her sex drive after having children. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ The talk of hall passes has …
Read More »Don’t Make It Just A Man’s Responsibility To Wear Protection; It’s Your Responsibility Too
There are many situations that we go through in relationships from infidelities to the lies. But, that is not the main issue nowadays. The issue that many people face today is having intercourse with someone that they love and trust without wearing protection. I recently received a Baller Mail but …
Read More »Let’s Talk: Is It Okay For Your Siblings To Be Besties With Your Ex?
Have you ever ended a relationship but your siblings continued to be your ex’s friend? Have you gotten in a relationship and your significant other’s siblings are still friends with your ex? I’ve never understood this kind of situation. Regardless of how you and your ex broke up, your …
Read More »Let’s Talk: Is It Necessary To Lie About Your Sexual Partners?
I recently saw an acquaintance post on their social media account that everyone lies about their body count. That got me to thinking about a previous article that I wrote asking, “Should a person’s body count matter in a relationship?” Many stated that it shouldn’t matter, while others made …
Read More »How to Block Your Ex From Popping Back Into Your Life
Two days into 2018 and the devil is busy. You have already made your New Year’s resolutions and promised to move forward in your life, then you get hit with the, “Hey Big Head” text. It took you a while to get over their ashy ass and now they think …
Read More »Let’s Talk: To Pop Up or To Not Pop Up? The Pros and Cons Of Popping Up On Your Significant Other
-blogged by @lanaladonna How many of us have had to pop-up on our significant other to catch them in the act of cheating, or being up to no good. Some may feel the need to do so to get the truth out of their significant other, while others may do …
Read More »Let’s Talk: Do All Men Cheat?
When you ask women whether or not if all men cheat, majority will answer with a hard yes. Most of the time, when women have been hurt continuously by men, we end up putting men in one category. Often times, some women confuse cheating with love. “I cheat on …
Read More »Well, Since You Went From Side Chick To Main Chick, Who Is Filling Your Spot?
I don’t know who has put out this notion that the “side chicks be winning.” Like, what are they exactly winning? They are playing a position that can be easily be fulfilled by the next person. Let’s just say that the guy does upgrade you from the side chick to …
Read More »Stop Trying To Get Closure From Someone That Has Clearly Moved On
We have all been in relationships that have either ended abruptly due to certain situations or ended without any kind of explanation. Many feel that certain questions have to be answered on why the relationship ended or what changed. There is nothing wrong with receiving closure from someone that you …
Read More »Potential Is Cool, But Women Are Tired of The “I’m Getting Myself Together ” Men
No one is perfect and if we all examined ourselves honestly, we would see areas that we need to drastically improve on. Some of us need better careers; others are in need of being mature about our finances. Communication is vital. While, many of us “talk” about our problems, rarely …
Read More »Let’s Talk: Is It Possible To Be In Love With Two People?
Love is a word that you don’t throw around loosely, especially when it comes to your heart and emotions. When you love someone, you will do whatever it takes to see them smile. We can love as many people as we want because our hearts are so pure and genuine. …
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