Women Are Downloading “Tea” to Share Dating Intel—and Men Are Not Happy About It
A new app called Tea is gaining traction for helping women protect themselves while dating, but it’s also sparking backlash from men who claim it’s unfair.
The app works like a virtual community where verified women can anonymously share information about men they meet on dating apps like Tinder, Bumble, Match, and Hinge. Before meeting someone in person, women can post a name and ask their local community if anyone has experience with him—whether he’s truly single, safe to meet, or potentially a catfish.
It’s essentially the modern version of the “Don’t Date Him Girl” website from the early 2000s, but with more tools. Users can set alerts for a man’s name so they’ll get notified if anyone posts about him. They can also share dating advice, flag red flags, and get support from other women who have dealt with similar situations.
Supporters of Tea say it empowers women by giving them a safe space to fact-check potential dates and avoid cheaters or unsafe encounters. Men, however, have been vocal online about their frustration, with some reportedly campaigning to have the app taken down.
For women, the app offers peace of mind, replacing older resources like Facebook dating groups, NSOPW, BeenVerified, and People Looker. Whether you’re planning a quick coffee meet-up or a serious relationship, Tea is designed to help women feel confident and safe in their dating lives.
Would you use Tea before going on a first date? Or do you think it crosses the line?
