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Honestly, Truly, I Don’t Give AF


The art of not giving AF is to truly be conscious of who you are as an individual, where you have been and where you plan to go. Many will claim to give zero f*cks but will be the first to pay attention to what society says. And that my …

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Don’t Let Patriarchy F*ck Your Life


Society has a way of manipulating us. By us I mean women. We’re taught that “ladies are seen and not heard”, “mind our manners”, we must “stay down and endure hell” and that our worth is somehow equated to being married. We are drilled to be these passive, nonsexual creatures …

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Tell Me Who You Loyal To…


The word loyalty is overused and widely misused. Toxic individuals use it as a tool to manipulate others into believing they have to remain in stagnant relationships, while most of us use the word to dictate the tone of our exchanges with the world. The reality is that loyalty is so …

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Baller Alert’s Year In Review: Top Moments in Hip Hop in 2017

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⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ 2017 has been monumental for most of us. It has been a year of unfathomable losses and unimaginable wins. The same can be said in Hip Hop however, the latter is more true. Hip Hop received W after W and as we close it out, BA has selected five …

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Five Reasons You’re Getting Coal For Christmas

It’s that time of year when Santa makes a list and he’s checking it twice. Many hope that their name makes St. Nick’s nice list. However, despite vigorous efforts to get gifts, it remains that coal is a very real possibility. Realistically, those in your life may not be in …

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4 Days Before Christmas I Bought My Man Some Shoes

⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ There is this old saying that if you buy a man shoes he will walk out of your life. At first glance, this seems to be right on the money because I’ve witnessed many women go beyond the call of duty for their man, only for him to leave …

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6 Days Before Christmas My Baby Gave Me Gifts That He Scammed Using Someone Else’s Credit Card

Could you date a man that breaks the law to keep you fresh? That’s a question that a lot of younger women are asking themselves and the answer is more obvious than many make it seem. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ The real question is why are we placing such value on materialistic things? …

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Ballerific Kicks: Puma Suede Gets Iconic Colors For 50th Anniversary


The Puma Suede celebrates its 50th anniversary with the release of the “Made in Japan” collector series. Crafted with premium suede, this #Clyde silhouette features the iconic colors of the #LosAngeles #Lakers. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀Dropped in purple, the monotony is broken with yellow Puma trademark on the side panel. Featuring three lace …

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9 Days Before Christmas My Baby Let Me Meet The Family

⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Chestnuts are roasting by an open flame. You spent Thanksgiving doing Friendsgiving and spending time with your family sans Bae, however, Christmas is gaining steam and quickly approaching. Bae wants you to spend time with him/her. They want to meet the family. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Before you get all gleeful and …

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10 Days Before Christmas My Baby Took Me To Tahiti

Jack Frost is nipping at your nose, but not for long. Bae said you were good this year. You’re getting that trip to warm weather. It’s just up to you where you want to go. You could sail the Pacific Ocean, tour the Mediterranean Sea or explore the Atlantic. One …

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Love Hurts Like Hell, But It’s Beautiful


⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ I spend a considerable amount of time cracking jokes and speaking about the woes of love. Many have had poor experiences with love, which then dictates their ability to relate. In all honesty, it’s a beautiful thing. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ However, people and their entitlement in conjunction with selfishness have perverted …

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Assailant In The Moses Malone Jr Criminal Case Has Been Convicted


⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ A year and a half ago, Moses Malone Jr, son of NBA legend and royalty, Moses Malone, was assaulted and robbed at then-Houston hot spot , the gentleman’s club, V-Live. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ The assault and robbery was an alleged order from Houston Rockets’ frontman, James Harden. Malone Jr. believed Harden …

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