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After A Breakup, Getting Under Someone New To Get Over Them May Not Be The Best Decision

We’ve all heard the saying, “Want to get over someone get under someone new.” But, do you honestly get over them? Depending on how long the two of you were together, you will not get over them as quickly as you would like to.
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Often times when you have been through so much with your ex, you begin to feel like a lot of time and energy was wasted. Don’t look at it as a waste but as a lesson learned.
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After a breakup, give yourself time to heal and to learn more about you. Although that relationship didn’t last, that doesn’t mean that your special someone isn’t out there. It’s all about timing.
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You don’t want to rush into a relationship with someone new after a breakup when you aren’t ready. Dating too soon after will cause more confusion for you and that’s not fair to the new person.
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Remember, love and breakups is a process that we all go through. It doesn’t matter how many times you have to start over, just go into the next relationship with an open mind when the time is right.
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Trust the process after a breakup and give yourself the love that you need for you.

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