Relationships

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How ” secure” are you with yourself and your relationship? Better yet, how well do you communicate with your significant other? I know those are open ended questions, but they need great consideration if you and your mate are going to explore Couples Clubs. Couple Clubs? These are membership -privy …

A common mistake we make as women is thinking that we can turn a piece of sh*t man into Prince Charming. Wake up sis! It’s not happening.   We have either said or heard someone say, “He is such a damn momma’s boy. When will he get off her tit?… …

In this day and age, black women are praised for dating white men but as soon as a black man does it, he’s called all kinds of names. What’s the difference?   As soon as a black woman has been lied to and cheated on by a black man, her …

Dating can be very challenging when it comes to meeting the right person, not just for you but for your children as well. Of course, you don’t want to bring just anyone around your children, so you try to be cautious about whom they come in contact with.   We …

I’m sure you read the title and instantly thought, “wtf!” Now that I have your attention, I want to talk to my ladies about men that cheat. Ladies, has someone in your life made you mad or upset due to their cheating ways? Did you stay after finding out? Are …

      Trying to understand people can be hard as hell. The way they talk to you and treat you can throw you for a loop, especially when you feel like you are more than interested in them then they are in you.   The worse feeling is putting …

No one really wants to hear the words “I’m not ready for a relationship”. It’s ego crushing, especially if you thought that you and the person you talk to were headed down that direction.   There could be a plethora of reasons why your individual isn’t ready for commitment. Maybe …

There’s this notion that people who marry at a young age, will not be married more than 5 years. I’m not sure where this number came from because there shouldn’t be a time-frame on how long a person will stay with their mate.   Many of us fell in love …

The first thing that crossed your mind once you read the title is, “How can you fall for someone by accident?” Well, I’m here to tell you it’s true and it can happen.   People come in and out of your life for different reasons. You don’t know their purpose …

We have all heard the saying, ” An ex should stay an ex. They’re the EXample of false love and an EXplanation for why you deserve better.” Not only is the saying an eye opener but it also helps provide clarity about the real reasons why that person is no …

Many of us have friends of the opposite sex that we have grown extremely close to. You may look at them like a brother or sister or possibly more than just a sibling relationship.   When it comes to a friendship, the two of you know a lot about each …

You know those half-a$$ friends, those, “I wish you all the best, but I hope you trip and fall friends?” Those friends who only seem interested in your life when you can do for them or when you’re not at your best. This is the blog just for those fake, …

With all that’s going on in today’s society from the increase in racially-charged hate crimes and black men, women and children being gunned down by police to being publicly disrespected by the celebrity-in-chief, Trump, it’s extremely important to discuss racism within your household.   For years, racism wasn’t discussed as …

Dear Crush, I have been trying to find the right words to say to you for months but haven’t been able to fix my lips to say them. Now that I have the opportunity, I want you to know that I am feeling you like no other. We have an …