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Let’s Talk: Is It Necessary To Lie About Your Sexual Partners?

I recently saw an acquaintance post on their social media account that everyone lies about their body count. That got me to thinking about a previous article that I wrote asking, “Should a person’s body count matter in a relationship?”

 

Many stated that it shouldn’t matter, while others made it perfectly clear that it is a major turn off and could cause them to end the relationship.

 

When it comes to sex, you can never be too sure about a person’s body count. Men tend to over exaggerate while women tend to give or take a few. But, what’s the point in doing so? I’m not saying that you have to tell about everyone who has been in and out of your bedroom but if you are going to discuss, then why not speak the truth?

 

Why do we as women tend to cut our numbers in half? Why not stand by your actions? Either they’ll accept you or reject you. It’s unfortunate that society is so ass backwards and full of double standards that it’s somehow okay for men to have multiple sexual partners but as soon as a woman mention she’s slept with more than one person in her life, she’s a whore.

 

According to society, men are praised for sleeping with multiple women but when a woman sleeps with any man other than the one she’s supposed to marry, she’s trash or damaged goods. Hmm quite interesting.

 

So if a guy asks you how many guys you’ve slept with, do you keep it real and lay your hoe sh*t on the table or do you keep it cute and keep the numbers as low as possible? Honestly, you should keep it real no matter what. You can either handle their truth or walk away. Don’t want to know, then don’t ask! Simple right?

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4 comments

  1. Real talk is if we are intimate and it appears your vagina is loose it pretty much suggest you have been a busy girl and i have to exit dtage left. So your body count matters. Loose lips sinks pitential relationships.

    • I disagree with this cuz the only thing that really makes pussy loose is child birth.

    • I’m not sure if u were asleep in sex ed or your parents didn’t sign your permission slip so that you could attend, but that ABSOLUTELY false!!! A woman’s vagina is stretched out by child birth. That has absolutely nothing to do with the question. If people were more honest then I would say yeah, but people lie so much!!! The real question is what does it matter? What’s more important is if they have an STD. Expecting a person to tell the truth about how many sexual partners they had would be like “waiting for roasted duck to fly into open mouth”…it ain’t gonna happen!

  2. @Len; so the women you meet don’t know what kegels are? That means they don’t know their body and that my friends is a problem! If you don’t know your body one will not know signs of sickness or how one really likes to receive pleasure. And a female can sleep with over 500 men and still have a snapper if she cares for herself correctly! A female can also have 1 partner and not know how to care for herself and end up with urinary leakage! I bet you are never the cause of this in a woman if you run into loose lips!!!
    We may talk about being equal all we want but as long as the male ego is around it’s best to STFU! No man truly wants to hear about your past. If he asking it’s a set up question cause he is looking for an out! Check your timelines before you answer this question! He might have ran your hoe fax already! ROFLD!!! Every man wants to believe he was a first to make you feel some way. Do you want to take that from him? This is a story of how keeping it real can go wrong!!!! What if you got bodies and finally find a good man? From the way he talks you will know if he is not okay with your former lifestyle! STFU ladies you know how to make up a wild female friend! If he don’t like her (former you) then keep it to yourself! Even if he is okay with you having a friend like that doesn’t mean he is okay with that being you! LIE LIE LIE!!!! If you want to keep him! Your not lying to hurt him, unless you have and STD you ain’t talking about then you nasty!

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