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Stop Blaming The Other Woman For Breaking Up Your Family, Blame Mr. Family Man

Cheating is never acceptable, regardless of who is doing the cheating. But what has me confused is why the other woman is always to blame, and the man simply gets a slap on the wrist?

In all honesty, the other woman doesn’t owe you anything. Is she wrong for sleeping or creeping with a man that’s taken? Hell yeah, especially if she knew that he was in a relationship. But she is not the one to blame.

Although it takes two, the only person to blame is the one you’re in the relationship with. Hell, he knew he had a family at home. Holding all of this resentment to someone outside of the relationship is foolish. How do you let Mr. Family Man off the hook but hold this grudge with someone who you aren’t sleeping with?

I don’t care how many times he has apologized, whether it’s in private or in public, it’s still wrong. If your man claims to love you like he says he does but continues to cheat, and you take him back…then you can’t blame anyone but yourself.

You know what type of man you have. Either accept it or drop him. No one deserves to be lied to or mistreated, especially when children are involved. But if you are going to continuously take someone back that has humiliated you over and over, you can only blame yourself.

People will only do what you allow them to do. It’s up to you to handle your relationship and the issues that are within the relationship.

Cheating Man

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