How ” secure” are you with yourself and your relationship? Better yet, how well do you communicate with your significant other? I know those are open ended questions, but they need great consideration if you and your mate are going to explore Couples Clubs. Couple Clubs? These are membership -privy venues where typically couples engage in sexual activity with each other, other couples, single males and/or single females. Simply put, they’re outlets where swingers meet up.
Membership can be purchased on a nightly, monthly, yearly and even lifetime basis, however a nightly entrance fee is accessed at the door. You must sign a waiver that states policies regarding nudity and participation as well as the restriction of cell phones.
For whatever reason you decide to indulge is your prerogative. However, if you’re going to hop on that train, it’s a few things you have to consider. I know I said “secure” initially, but security has nothing to do with opening this Pandora’s box. It’s more about comfortability. How comfortable are you with nudity, others approaching your mate, indulging in sexual activity with “strangers” or performing in front of others? Are you willing to share your intimacy with others ?
⠀⠀⠀⠀[I know for myself, I don’t go for any of that. I mean, I walk around the house naked, I’ve streaked and skinny dipped, so I’m comfortable with being naked; but I don’t share or give passes.] I don’t want to see my significant other with anyone let alone getting vagina and sloppy toppy or doing that tongue trick with someone else. However, there are many couples (married) that say this alternative lifestyle has made them a lot closer and kept the marriage alive and well as well as prevented either party from cheating. (How? I don’t know Sway). If that’s your thing, then cool.
Most couples clubs have a “club like” area where you can dance and enjoy the DJ, then there’s the carnal side. You can participate or simply watch. It’s something along the lines of live porn with the option of turning it into a full fledge orgy, if you’re into that sort of thing.
You can connect and indulge while there before heading to your destination , albeit your place, their place or a neutral place (hotel). The choice rests on you. Protection and hygiene products are at your disposal. There are tons of people in there that are voyagers (people that want to watch you) , exhibitionists ( people that want you to watch them) and “engagers” those that want to participate with you and everybody else. It’s the club with the in-house happy ending.