Ballerific Relationships: To Put Out Or Not To Put Out?

Sex on the first night is always being debated. The opinions on the subject are normally split between males & females so the decision on if it’s okay or not is always up in the air. Girls are often split into thinking that sex on the first night will make a guy lose respect for them. They fear that putting out on the first night will make the guy lose interest in being in a relationship with her. So now the question is does putting out on the first night really make a guy lose interest in being with a girl What if sex on the first night really made a guy more interested?

We’ve all heard the “all guys want is sex” speech & remarks. We’ve all heard the female logic behind waiting to have sex because it helps to see if the guy really likes you or not. Even if you don’t believe in any of that the truth behind the matter is that males tend to be physical type while females tend to be more emotional type. Another truth is that both males & females love sex & it’s human nature to want to engage in that act.

Here’s the scenario: It’s the first night and after some light foreplay & a couple close calls of almost having sex you really have to decide to put out or not to put out.

Being a guy & saying that sex on the first night isn’t bad gives the impression that that’s all we want. That’s looked upon as the typical bad guy response. But what if it’s the logical answer? Sex on the first night in reality doesn’t tell you much about the person. The act of having sex on the first night doesn’t make you look bad. Just because a guy makes the move to have sex on the first night doesn’t mean he’s a bad guy or that he thinks any less of you. Also it’s not going to be a deciding factor on if a guy takes you out again. Most of the time guys have already decided their intentions with you. If he was only looking for sex & you make him wait it out that just ends in wasted time for you.

But what if putting out on the first night made a guy more interested? What if putting out the first night sparks an interest that creates more opportunities for you to hangout & create a bond? Not saying it’s building a relationship based off sex but it’s skipping past the game of trying to figure out the intentions of a guy. Sex has also been proven to build connections. So is sex on the first night really that bad? Sex on the first night isn’t for everybody but that doesn’t make it something that should come with so much negative judgement.