Ballerific Relationships: But He’s Not Your Man

One of the hardest challenges a woman can face is falling in love with a man who isn’t giving her any signs he wants to commit. Now we all have it in us, we all have our moment when we are a bit of a hopeless romantic when it comes to that particular guy. It’s “The Talk” that looms between every man and woman where there lies some type of physical or emotional attraction. So you discuss becoming his girlfriend and moving your relationship to the next level. However, he makes it very clear he is not looking for a relationship. No matter what reason he may give you, he remains adamant he wants no commitment with you.

So you continue to deal with him and you make yourself believe the two of you are in a relationship. You hang out, talk/text all the time, you cook for him, you send cute selfies, feed his sexual desires and do all the things that a girlfriend does. You make yourself wonder where his head is really at. Now don’t be fooled because he gets bothered and shows some jealousy when you talk to other guys. Forget his actions girl; remember what his mouth has told you.

As a woman you can’t continue to give a man girlfriend benefits while he blatantly tells you he doesn’t want any commitment with you. Just because he decides to go along with this should not be confused with some secret desire you hope he has to one day be with you. Bottom line is he’s not your man. No matter how much of yourself you give this man, you will still find yourself month’s maybe even years later with no relationship and him moving making some other women his girlfriend. If told you he doesn’t want a relationship with you, take it for what it is.

No matter how much you give that man the cow, he’s never going to buy your milk. Stop holding on to false hope and giving benefits to a man that has no plans to invest in you. He is being clear as to what he wants, and honey it’s not you. Remember  before you act He’s Not Your Man.