One of the most difficult relationship to be in with your baller is that of a long distance relationship. This type of relationship depends on trust. How much you trust him, how much he trusts you.It has to be extra strong if you want this relationship to succeed. If you lack in that area (don’t know why you would even be together at that point.) than the chances of survival so far from each other are slim to none. What might really aggravate you is that he might be out there doing his thing and you’re home miserable and missing him.
He seems to be having fun at clubs, spending time with his boys and thats when the jealousy will turn its evil head. This will cause you to wonder what exactly he’s doing out there since you arent around. The fact that he isnt around when you’re having a bad day is sad. Who do you lean on for support? The fact that a phone call can only comfort you so much especially if he is away for a long time. Couples tend to spend a lot of time with each other, so when you are in a LDR, you’re unable to slowly ger to know all of him. You are just able to make up stories in your head of what he’s really like only to quite possibly be dissapointed once you actually see each other again.
We need sex. You not having sex, and your man not having sex with anyone else is going to drive you insane. Your man will realize that he can get sex and not tell you about it, and then he’ll start to not trust you and vice versa. Not to say that a guy cant keep it in his pants if he really wants to but there will be temptations. Even if your man tells a woman that’s hitting on him that he is in a committed relationship, you have some odds that this woman really doesn’t care that he’s got someone else,, they’ll just throw themselves at him just because they can. There are also envious women who realize he is happy, and committed and want nothing more but to ruin this relationship.
I am a true romantic, and I want to hold hands, and cuddle and have bed talks and cook for my man, clean for him, do what I have to do to make him happy. I want to console him when he’s having a rough day. Phyically touching is important to me. The long distance relationship wouldn’t work for me because I am that person that wants to wake up in the comfort of his arms and always wants to hug him.
I am not saying that a long distance relationship cant work, what I am saying is that you have to remember that you have to put in the effort to make it work. You have to try extra hard to keep their attention on you, as far as you are and you have to refrain from making up stories of princesses and princes in your head because odds are that he isnt a prince. You have to use self control to keep other men at bay because you are an attractive woman and not a lot of men will care if they ruin your relationship.
