Our Fetishologist, MizCaramelVixen, is sharing her take on privacy, trust and social media for athletes and the people who spend time around them.
She says she has worked as a professional dominatrix in New Jersey for seven years and that her clients come from all walks of life. Her business runs on one rule: discretion. People have partners, families and contracts to think about, and nobody wants their private life played out online.
Her advice for athletes and other public figures:
Treat the people you spend time with fairly and with respect. Feeling shortchanged is one of the fastest ways a private situation ends up public.
Be careful with social media. Direct messages from strangers can turn into screenshots, and a fan relationship is not the same as a professional one.
Never assume a private photo or message will stay private, especially if things end badly. The safest option is not to send it at all.
Her advice for fans:
Made to order and shipped to your door.
Keep your feelings in check and respect people’s privacy. If things do not work out, posting screenshots and messages everywhere rarely helps anyone, and it can end any chance of a good relationship down the road.
The takeaway is simple. Use common sense, respect each other, and keep private business private.
MizCaramelVixen is on Twitter at @MizCaramelVixen and on Instagram.
