Yay or Nay To First Date Sex?

It’s a fact that women usually know that they want to sleep with a man within the first 15 minutes of meeting him but although we are well aware, we take many precautions to keep from looking like a hoe. Some women feel that the longer you make him wait, the more he’ll appreciate you while some believe that whether you give up the panties today or next week, it doesn’t matter, he still got em! So what do you think of First Date Sex?

Let’s start with the PROS

– All of the sexual tension is out of the way: You want him, he wants you, and it’s all very obvious. Nothing like sexual tension to get in the way and make everything awkward. Why not get it out of the way immediately and move on with your lives. You’ll thank yourself later when you realize that you saved yourself a lot of time. 

– Sex plays a large part in a relationship: Whether you believe it or not, sex plays a huge part in any relationship. Sex has a subtle way of telling you whether someone is completely into you or not. It also has a way of giving off a persons personality. A relationship with bad sex isn’t quite a relationship at all! It’s best you find this out as soon as possible.

– If you put it on him, you can get him sprung early: Have a guy you want to snag? Well all you have to do is put it on him good enough to keep him coming back. It’s common knowledge that men are ruled by vagina, because if they weren’t, groupies wouldn’t be in business. Why not put it down in the sheets to keep that man out the streets?

– He’ll respect you for know what you want: Believe it or not there are men who will respect you for being upfront about how you feel in the beginning. He wants sex just as much as you do but he’s not into the long game of cat and mouse. Show him that you are in total control!

Now on to the CONS

– Your relationship is likely to be based on sex: So now that you’ve slept with him, he’s probably assume that this is what he should come to expect every day. Are you ready to set the tone of your relationship around sex?

– A bad sexual experience can cause you to miss out on a great guy: Your new guy couldn’t quite make the 1 minute mark? It’s a major turn off and regardless of what you say, you’re judging him. You may never want to see him again let alone sleep with him. 

– He may lose respect for you: An old fashioned man may not want something that is easy to get so he may be turned off by you giving up the goodies so early on.  Whether he stays or he goes, in the back of his mind he definitely thinks a little less of you.