Quit Trying To Turn A Situationship Into A Relationship

Ladies, why is it that the less interested men are in us the more interested we are in them?

Although he says all the right things, his actions show otherwise. Maybe it’s the thrill of the chase that we feed off of.

Catching feelings for a man who isn’t giving you signs that he wants to commit only leads down the path of heartbreak. Surely we all have a moment when we are a bit of a hopeless romantic when it comes to that particular guy. Yet, when you try to have that talk he makes it very clear he is not looking for a relationship and is adamant no matter the reason he gives you.

You lie to yourself thinking the power of your p***y will overcome, but you will never be able to force a man to do what he isn’t ready to do.

Wake up girl, just because he decides to go along with your shenanigans, that doesn’t change the fact that he is not your man. Don’t get confused by his minor tantrums or bits of jealousy, focus on what his actions show. If he refuses to give you the title, don’t lose yourself trying to convince him that you’re worth it. Just find someone who already sees that you are worth it.

No matter how much of yourself you give this man, you will still find yourself months, maybe even years, later with no relationship status. So you can continue to deal with him and make yourself believe the two of you are in a relationship but don’t be surprised when he pops up with a new chick.

In the end, at some point you are going to have to stop giving that man the cow, when he’s made it clear he’s never going to buy your milk. Stop holding on to false hope and find a man for you cause honey you’re just building this one for the next woman.