Jayda Wayda recently shared a raw and emotional look at the reality of being intentional in a world that often keeps score. Sitting in her car, the influencer and entrepreneur broke down while discussing the exhaustion of constantly trying to do right by people, only to have those same people wait for a moment of weakness to throw in her face. “I am so intentional with how I treat people because I’m already prepared for shit to go bad,” she shared, explaining that her kindness is often a shield against future criticism. She expressed a deep dislike for “score-based” relationships, noting that her recent experiences have made her value her true friendships even more.
The transparency continued as she shifted from hurt to a firm realization about her own role in these dynamics. Jayda admitted that her own lack of boundaries is what allowed these situations to persist. “I fault myself 100% because I allowed these things to continuously happen without setting boundaries ’cause I’m just so nice and kind,” she said, reflecting on how she often made excuses for others’ behavior. She offered a stern reminder to her audience that while forgiveness is possible, restored access is not guaranteed. “You can forgive, but you can’t give people the same access ’cause they can’t wait to use it against you.”
By the end of her message, it was clear that she is prioritizing her peace over being perceived as the nice guy. She spoke on retreating into her own bubble and her own world to avoid the “weird” energy that comes with keeping people close who don’t have the same heart. “I just gotta stop setting the same expectations that I set for people,” she concluded, signaling a major shift in how she plans to protect her energy moving forward. “I am so sick of being nice to motherfuckers, for real. I am so sick of being nice.”
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