So you want to date a Baller, eh? Last week we posted a couple of reasons as to why one would want to stay away from the Ballerific scene, but here are a few reasons one might be attracted to it. You see, all Ballers aren’t bad. They aren’t all cheaters and you may learn a few things. The list below are of a few reasons you want to date a baller and didn’t even know it.
For Example:
1 – He doesn’t live with his mama. Are you sick and tired of men with high expectations that bring nothing to the table? Are you even more tired of having to work around your man’s curfew because he can’t be sneaking in the house while his mom is sleeping because she has work in the morning? Get a Baller. Chances are if his mom is there, SHE’S living with HIM — and it’s not a lie this time.
2 – Experience something new. Some women who date Ballers may not be used to the Ballerific Lifestyle and that’s absolutely okay. Now for the time being, you can at least enjoy meals at a 5 star restaurant, sleep at ritzy hotels, fly first class and actually own a passport with stamps in it. There’s nothing wrong with an upgrade and anyone who says there is, is a liar.
3 – You have time apart. If you’re like me, you probably don’t want a man who’s always up under you and enjoy your time alone. You’ll have a lot of that when you date a Baller. He will spend a significant time on the road and if he’s any good, free time will be spent at practice. Since absence makes the heart grow fonder, this will make for some awesome reunion sex and it’ll give you time to think of creative ways to keep your Baller interested while he’s away. That is, if you’re up for the challenge.
4 – He’ll have the body of a Greek God. Listen, dating a Baller has its perks and one of those perks is that his health and fitness is on point. His body will be nothing short of amazing and it may even convince you to get your fitness regime up to par too. Either way, sleeping with a body hand crafted by God himself can NEVER be a bad thing.
5 – Test your strength. You ever want to test how strong of a woman you are? Date a man who has a ton of groupies and see if you can handle it. If for nothing else, dating Ballers is a learning experience that will help you find yourself (if you allow it). Having to deal with groupies, rumors, traveling, etc is hard — something a lot of women don’t have to deal with on a day to day basis.
Honorable Mention: You get to go to all of the games for free!
Before you get your panties in a bunch, none of the above says you can’t do any of these things for yourself. In fact, you can. But this isn’t about that. This is for the woman who is interested in dating Ballers and wants the Pro’s and the Con’s of doing so. Welcome to Baller Alert — For Women Who Want The Ballerific Life.