If She Has Access To You, I Don’t Want You

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I’m territorial like no other with family, friends and the guy that has my attention. Maybe it’s because I’m an Aries.

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If I am dealing with someone and he has an ex or a drive by that won’t move on, I can not deal with you. I mentally check out of the relationship before I physically leave.

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It has nothing to do with insecurity, but everything to do with respect, especially if these said women wouldn’t allow this type of behavior to transpire with them.
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But because he allows it, they will continue do it. I’ve been known to check a female or two because we know what we are doing when we are being disrespectful, but I believe the correction should come from the dude.

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I don’t care if he and your kids had such a great relationship. You have a new man and he is dating someone else, confide in Jesus. He’ll never leave or forsake you. There is nothing friendly about individuals that shared sex faces.
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If a female can call or text your dude when she pleases, then you should move around. The only female that should get his undivided attention is his mother and/or daughter if he has a child. If another woman has access like you have access then there is a huge problem.

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niksofly
I don't write to appease those that are unsure of themselves. I write to create a space for thought and conversation.

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I don't write to appease those that are unsure of themselves. I write to create a space for thought and conversation.

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