Baller Alert After Dark: Ladies, How Do You Know If A Guy Enjoyed You In Bed?

A relationship isn’t just compromised of sex but it’s a great necessity to have, especially when the sex is AMAZING. But what happens when the guy of your dreams is not the best in bed? 


Let’s say you’ve been talking to this guy for months and seems too good to be true. The first time you guys to decide to have sex, he’s a quick pumper. Not only is he a quick pumper but he sucks at oral. What do you do? Do you teach him how to turn on you on? Are you the reason he can’t last long? There can be so many scenarios on why things didn’t go the way you expected them to. 


The real question is “How do we know whether or not we are good in bed?”


Are we being rated on our performance during the act? Are we rating our partner in our mind during sex?


I’m not going to lie, there have been times when I was not into it or I just didn’t feel that chemistry and in my mind I just wanted it to be over. There have been times I did not enjoy it and gave it another go hoping it would be better the second time around.


I think it’s safe to say that plenty of women have “faked it” during sex and the guy walks away thinking he did something spectacular. But how do women know if a guy genuinely enjoyed himself?


Do guys fake their way through sex as well? Also, is there a way to tell if someone is good in bed before you sleep with them? So ladies, do you have any go-to methods to determine if a guy will be able to please you in bed?

About Peachkyss

Peachkyss is the Fashion Writer and Content Curator for Baller Alert, who keeps reader up-to-date on the latest trends, the latest luxury brand collections, and how to "ball" on a budget.  Peachkyss has her Bachelors in Elementary Education with a concentration in Mathematics from Norfolk State University and Masters in Middle Grades Mathematics from Walden University.  Have a question about what your favorite celeb is wearing or fashion advice, email me at [email protected] "Style is a way to say who are you are without having to speak."

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