A relationship isn’t just compromised of sex but it’s a great necessity to have, especially when the sex is AMAZING. But what happens when the guy of your dreams is not the best in bed?
Let’s say you’ve been talking to this guy for months and seems too good to be true. The first time you guys to decide to have sex, he’s a quick pumper. Not only is he a quick pumper but he sucks at oral. What do you do? Do you teach him how to turn on you on? Are you the reason he can’t last long? There can be so many scenarios on why things didn’t go the way you expected them to.
The real question is “How do we know whether or not we are good in bed?”
Are we being rated on our performance during the act? Are we rating our partner in our mind during sex?
I’m not going to lie, there have been times when I was not into it or I just didn’t feel that chemistry and in my mind I just wanted it to be over. There have been times I did not enjoy it and gave it another go hoping it would be better the second time around.
I think it’s safe to say that plenty of women have “faked it” during sex and the guy walks away thinking he did something spectacular. But how do women know if a guy genuinely enjoyed himself?
Do guys fake their way through sex as well? Also, is there a way to tell if someone is good in bed before you sleep with them? So ladies, do you have any go-to methods to determine if a guy will be able to please you in bed?