Baller Alert Exclusive – Amanda Secor Talks Baby Mama Drama, Says Moniece Ran Through The Whole Cast & Clarifies Whether She’s Dating Jonathan Dowling

Baller Alert got the chance to chat exclusively with Amanda Secor of Love & Hip Hop Hollywood to get to the bottom of all of her tea! We discussed Lil Fizz and his bed of roaches, her beef with Moniece and of course whether or not Jonathan Dowling is her new boo.

On Not Knowing Who B2K Was

“I knew who B2K was, I just didn’t know who Lil Fizz was. I wasn’t into them and keeping up with who each of them were. I heard of B2K, I just wasn’t a groupie of B2k. I wasn’t all into them and had posters on my wall. I was more into NSync and Justin Timberlake.”

On Fizz Pressuring Her Into Being A Step-Mom

“That’s just a lot of pressure and I felt like Cameron already has a mom, I don’t need to take that place. Moniece is his mom and Moniece should be filling that void. Drew wanted that family dynamic in his life so bad that he was putting a lot of pressure on me to fill that void in his life. I was still going through a lot of things that I couldn’t commit to that. I was so afraid of disappointing him that we were kind of doing this back and forth, tug of war thing.”

On Moniece’s Involvement As A Parent

“During the duration of the 2 years Drew and I have been together Moniece was definitely not present as much as she should have been. She would go weeks at a time without seeing Cameron or being involved in the decisions that were being made in his life. That’s what I saw but as of now I think they’re working it out, trying to co-parent and she’s apparently gotten herself together.”

On Whether She Was Out Of Line The Night Moniece Slapped Her

“No not at all. I think Moniece has been out of line and she’s always out of line. At that point I was just so sick of her disrespect. She has no regard for anything that she does and I was just sick of it. I feel like she IS delusional and she IS crazy. She didn’t like what I was saying, she couldn’t handle it, she didn’t know what else to do so she put her hands on me. It was a very immature thing to do and she’s a child. You can’t force somebody to grow up at 25 years old.”

On Her Instagram Post Saying Lil Fizz Sleeps On A Bed Of Roaches and Ants & Whether It Was Real

“I posted that but this is the thing, everyone had been talking about ‘thot this’ and ‘thot that’ and I didn’t care. It was irrelevant to me because I don’t know you people. You’re irrelevant to my life, I don’t care. But when Drew said it, it hurt because me and you were in a relationship and at one point we were in love, we did care about each other so don’t come at me all of a sudden because you think you’re brand new. I know the real you. I don’t know Lil Fizz. I know the real Drew and who you really are so don’t act like all of a sudden within this two week timeframe that you’re a brand new person. Don’t call me a thot when your baby mama has been ran through by everybody on the cast. Don’t be like that.”

When asked about the threats Moniece made after Amanda posted that comment to Lil Fizz Amanda says, “I think Moniece is a disgusting person. I think the way she talks is disgusting and I think she is starved for attention and will do anything for attention at this point.”

On Whether Or Not Jonathan Dowling Is Her Miami Boo

“[laughs] It’s definitely false, that rumor is not true. Jonathan is not Mr. Miami. Me and Jonathan are not dating.”

I mentioned to Amanda that Jonathan’s baby mama actually commented on the photo of she and Jonathan and she said, “That was really weird. That’s another person I don’t understand. And she didn’t even … she was just like ‘that’s my daughter’s father’ and I was like Ok..That was really weird. Whatever, girls are weird. I guess they’re very territorial. It’s just a picture. We weren’t even booed up in the picture, nothing like that. People are going to make assumptions and think what they are going to think. I can’t control people.”

She goes on to say in our interview that if she could take anything back, she wouldn’t have cheated on Lil Fizz with Mr. Miami. She also says that if Fizz were to ask her to come back to him, she wouldn’t because after the break up and how he’s treated her since, she can’t respect how he moves.

As far as the other cast mates and whether she gets along with them, Amanda says all of the ladies are nice. She really likes Apryl, but she hasn’t really bonded with any of the other ladies. As far as all of the other drama, we’ll have to check out the Love and Hip Hop Hollywood reunion show next week to see what pops off!