Ballerific Advice: How to Delete Your Hoeness

Remember Draya’s infamous interview where she claimed your hoeness can be deleted? Im sure you do, because slut-shamers went bat crazy, bashing her and hoes all over the world who thought they’d ever escape their promiscuous image. According to those same people, deleting your hoeness is an impossible feat, something Draya, or any hoe after her, will never be able to do. But, just like all the other social standards and expectations, that don’t make sense, I must call those people out on their BS. Your Hoeness CAN be deleted, and has been deleted for men since the beginning of time. Think about it, how often do we deem a man “non relationship material” because of his past hoeness? Not often at all, instead, we either praise them, and glorify the fact that they run through different women faster than Usain Bolt, or we excuse it as a man simply exploring his options; but never a hoe.  This is especially true if he has money or any status of success: look at all the male celebrities and athletes who are known hoes, and have no problem getting wives, or starting families.  So, I bring to you ladies, the how to guide to delete your hoeness;

Acknowledge Your Self Worth

Everyone has different reasons for being a hoe, some need attention, some are dealing with issues from childhood, and your reason may be something else; regardless, it has resulted in you devaluing yourself for men who don’t deserve it. You may not see it as “devaluing yourself”, but only because you don’t give your self enough value. Self-Reflect, and realize how special you are, love yourself, and you will begin to understand that not everyone deserves a piece of you.

Stop Being a Hoe

You can’t shake an image, if you are still doing the same things. After you acknowledge your self worth, it’ll be easier to stop talking to every man who gives you attention. Make it a point to stop the hoe habits you’ve formed in the past, and create new habits, like going on dates instead of Netflix ‘N Chills.

Chase your dreams, and not these men

At some point you have to realize, after getting nothing beneficial or long term from the men you choose, that chasing men, is the biggest waste of time and energy. Instead, use that energy to invest in your dreams and success. Look at Kim Kardashian, after her hoe tape released, she went through a dark period, but eventually became so successful in all of her business ventures ($85 million net worth), she didn’t have time to be a hoe, or care about the broke peasants who shamed her for being a hoe. Stop running around trying to claim these nothing guys, and claim your own success instead.   

Yes, you may have been a hoe in your previous years, but who are we to judge? As long as you take the appropriate steps, and give up being a hoe forever, there is no reason why your past can’t be just that: a past. So, to those who have dreamt about escaping and deleting their hoeness, I challenge you to follow the above steps, and remember; we’ve all done something we wish we could change.