Somewhere, I heard the phrase, “Behind every hot woman, there is also a man that’s sick of her.”
Sounds kind of like, ”one man’s garbage is another man’s treasure.” Sad, but that’s the truth. Once a man has what every other man desires, he slowly but surely becomes comfortable and no longer values this woman as he once did while he was courting her. You could be the most beautiful, successful woman but the man that wants to cheat, will still cheat.
Now the question is why? You have the most absolutely gorgeous woman on your arm, and there are men that would kill to have her and you go ahead and cheat anyway? Why is it that men are oblivious to what they once treasured?
When a man cheats, we usually blame the woman, the woman wasn’t sleeping with him enough, she was holding out on him, she wasn’t good to him, she didn’t cook for him. She, She, She. She put on extra weight, she no longer looks good or takes care of herself so now he has no choice but to step out of the relationship and find someone else. It’s not his fault, she doesn’t care about her appearance. There has to be a reason to blame the woman for the man stepping out on her.
For example: Eva Longoria must be one of the most perfect looking women I have ever seen. Not only is she drop dead gorgeous with an amazing body but shes talented and successful. But Eva was cheated on by Tony Parker. Halle Berry is also extremely successful and I don’t know one man that would ever not sleep with her if he had the chance or hold her up on a pedestal. She is one of the world’s most gorgeous woman but yet her man, Eric Bennet, also stepped out on her. Now, if he is crazy is up to debate. Sandra Bullock was cheated on by Jesse James, Lisa Raye was cheated on by Michael Misick and Christie Brinkley was cheated on by Peter Cook. Not to mention Tiger Woods and his embarrassing affair.
What makes these powerful, successful men cheat on their extraordinary beautiful wives?
What do these men have in common? Their power. The fact that their wives are gorgeous have nothing to do with the fact that these men hold some kind of fame. There are women literally throwing themselves at these men. The women that these men marry are classy and beautiful, but it takes more than looks to keep a man faithful. There has to be more of a foundation to their relationship that keeps it thriving and alive. A relationship based solely on looks is going to fade and its going to fade fast. This theory proves that when you are searching for someone to marry, you have better luck looking at the quality of the man himself and not the looks. The looks might keep you occupied for a little while but his morals and values are what keeps that relationship fresh.
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