Ballerific Relationships: He Loves Me.. He Loves Me NOT. By: @milagreee

All of us, at some point or another have been with the guy who leaves you completely confused about what he really wants from you. His words speak so loudly, but his actions tell you something different. That something different being that he isn’t that into you. I’ve compiled a list that might be helpful in determining whether or not you’re in a one way relationship and he isn’t really that into you.

When a man tells you he isn’t looking for anything serious, believe him. He isn’t telling you for the sake of speaking or rather for you to think that your sweetness will persuade him into changing his mind. Run.

The “spontaneous” man, as he likes to refer to himself, that makes last minute dates. I’ve spoken about this pain in the rear before and I can’t ever speak of him enough. He is the man who asks you out last minute consistently. Beware of the man who says “I just don’t like to make plans too much ahead” umm.. He’s probably sifting through his contacts, sending the same message to every girl that he knows, hoping someone will bite.

Ever date that guy that says he’s going to do something and never does? Blah. A man is nothing if his word isn’t valid. What do you think the rest of the relationship will be like if he’s starting off by promising you things and never actually following through?

He stands you up. Enough said.

He avoids getting to know you. He keeps the conversation on the surface and superficial. He doesn’t ask you about your goals, hopes and dreams. If he doesn’t care, he’s not into you.

If he isn’t asking you out, then he isn’t that into you. No man is too busy for the woman he’s interested in pursuing. I don’t care how many ways you cut that up and toss it, he will make time for the woman he wants to date. Point. Blank. Period.

Men aren’t the best at faking the funk with their actions. Some men are able to fill your head up with hopes and dreams but the fact of the matter is that if you watch instead of listen, you’ll get a hell of a lot more vital information about the sort of relationship he wants to pursue with you. Never settle for less than your worth.